u/RedEyes2005

Serious question for girls and their mothers.

A boy is 28, has a government job or small business, prays 5 times, has good character. But his salary is 80k-1.2 lakh.

You reject him straight away saying “life standard maintain nahi ho sakta”.

But you want a guy who takes you to Dubai every year and buys iPhone every launch.

Then you cry “acha rishta nahi mil raha”.

Be real would you marry a boy earning 1 lakh if he is good in deen and character?

Or is money and “settled abroad” the only thing that matters now?

Question for rich families:

A boy is doctor/engineer, good looking, from middle-class but respectable family.

Your daughter likes him. But you reject because “uske ghar ka standard hamare barabar nahi”.

You want only “same level” even if the boy is 10 times better in character and deen.

You say “log kya kahenge” but you don’t care what Allah will say on the Day of Judgement.

Admit it class and status matter more to you than anything else.

Prove me wrong.

Be honest guys.

You say you want a “simple pious girl” but in reality you reject every girl who is not fair and slim.

Even if she is well educated and from a good family, you ask “kitna weight hai?” and “kitni fair hai?”

Then you demand 50 lakh+ dowry + car + flat.

After that you still complain “ladkiyan bohot demanding hoti hain”.

Tell me I’m wrong.

Which one of you happily married a dark-skinned average-looking girl without taking any dowry?

I’m waiting for real answers.

Be honest for once, boys and aunties in this sub.

You see a 26-28 year old girl. She is educated, working, beautiful, good family, everything perfect. But because she had 1-2 serious relationships in university (nothing even physical maybe), you reject her instantly saying “we want a pure innocent girl only”.

Meanwhile you yourself lost your virginity at 19-20 with random girls from campus or office, watched porn daily, had multiple flings, and now suddenly you are a decent family boy who wants a virgin who never even looked at another guy.

Your own sisters and cousins did the exact same things but you hide it and call it bachpan ka chakkar.

If the girl is super fair, super rich, or has foreign passport, suddenly her past doesn’t matter and you adjust. But if she is normal middle class, then character issue.

This is pure hypocrisy.

You destroy good girls lives over something you did ten times worse. Then you cry acha rishta nahi mil raha.

Tell me I’m lying.

Share your real stories if you have the guts. Boys who actually married a girl with past speak up. Girls who got rejected for this vent here.

Well this one is pure hypocrisy.

You elite families say you are so liberal and open minded. Your daughters wear whatever they want to parties.

But when your 20-year-old maid comes to work, you force her to cover her head and wear loose clothes because log kya kahenge.

Your own daughter posts bold pics from Dubai but the maid can't show her arms.

You treat religion and culture like a tool only for poor people.

Stop pretending to be progressive.

Straight question for boys:

A 29-year-old girl, educated, working, good looking, from decent family. She had one serious relationship before but now wants to settle.

Will you marry her?

Or will you reject her saying “we want a pure innocent girl only”?

Be honest. Most of you have done everything before marriage but still want a 100% virgin girl who never talked to any boy.

Double standards much?