r/NerdDating

27 [F4M] #Illinois - looking for a nerdy guy with golden retriever energy

Hello there!:) I’m looking for a connection that could become something more. I’ve been in one relationship but it was a serious one and it lasted 8 years so I’m a bit out of the loop when it comes to dating. I’ve tried some actual dating apps and have found nothing to put it plainly lol, so I thought I’d try here.

A little about me is that I love love love Star Wars! (Star Wars marathon perhaps?). I’m also into DC and Marvel. I love horror movies, going to comic cons and museums. I also enjoy gaming (we could play together!), and baking. I also enjoy building LEGO, and have quite the nerd collection. I have two cats. Personality wise I’m fairly shy until I get to know someone though I do try to match your energy. I can be a bit of a recluse or homebody. I’d like someone who could help me out of my shell a bit. Physical appearance wise I’m 5’6, dark shoulder length hair, glasses, blue eyes, freckles, and have tattoos. Sorry to disappoint but I’m not super skinny I am in fact curvy 😭. I don’t necessarily have preferences tho I am a sucker for some blonde curls I can’t lie..

If any of this caught your eye, I look forward to hearing from you 🫶

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u/bimbo-soup — 1 day ago

[M4F] #US Feel free to reach out i wont bite!

Where to start its been about 5 years since my last relationship. Things ended amicably between the two of us but I closed myself off from dating and now im ready to open myself up to the world. A little about me is im 25 and from Texas, I work from home so im pretty much available throughout the day. I absolutely love music and my taste changes almost daily and I love

recommendations so tell me what you're listening to and ill definitely get to you on that. I love gaming as well so if you play definitely Imk we can play something and yap over that. But im gonna end this introduction here, I dont want it to get too long but feel free to dm I promise ill respond back.

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u/AnonCarbon999 — 1 day ago

[F4M] #Sweden 27F asian woman looking for serious relationship

Hi! I just arrived in Sweden and I’m looking for a genuine man. I love cooking and traveling, and although I haven’t found a job yet, I’m trying my best so please be okay with me ranting about job applications every day hahaha.
I also love pokemon, games (especially card games and FPS games), and I’m open to trying new games too. I only have an old laptop at the moment, so I can’t really play games with very high requirements.
I also enjoy walking. I might seem shy and awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable, I become very open and talkative.
I would love a white collar professional man but open to any as long as you have a job and no gambling or alcohol addiction

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u/innocentncurious — 1 day ago

40 [TF4M] #Cleveland Ohio spend my birthday with me and or life

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My birthdays is in 4 days! Anyone wanna go on a birthday date?

I was told by someone randomly to keep this simple and sweet the next time I post an ad. It is normally much longer. So here it is:

I am a 40 year old transwoman panromatic with demisexual flair. I am neurospicy and have memory issues. I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more. I prefer DC TV shows over movies and Marvel Movies over TV shows.

My hard boundaries are responding with my question at the bottom of the post, smoking, excessive drinking and requiring a video chat within the first month to prove you are who you say you are.

My soft boundaries are not wanting pictures of us, distance (If you are out of North America at the time of the message, HARD BOUNDARY!), and aversion to anything social media.

I am not a bad person, big girl, adorable and a great personality.

If you want to message me go ahead but you must answer the following questions before I will respond:

  1. Where did you find me? AKA what sub reddit

  2. Favorite animal and color

  3. One hot take. (Something you believe others do not but you stand firm on)

Hope we chat later.

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u/starsonlyone — 4 days ago

31 [F4M] #Virginia nerdy love story?

Fun stuff first: I'm a dominant woman and would love to hava a lifestyle sub. But not required. 🥰

Honestly, in my free time I’m a bit of a homebody. I read a lot (like 200 books a year), mostly thrillers and psychological horror/suspense stuff. But also philosophy and poetry. I do a little painting here and there nothing fancy just for fun, and I like kayaking when I get the chance. But most of the time, you’ll find me chilling at home playing games, reading or watching something. I have one cat who's my sweet baby.

I play PC games and TTS board games (magic the gathering and other board games). i just want a simple life. settle down, get married to my soul mate, and let the rest lie where it will.

is romance dead??

Disclaimers:

I dont drive

And im fat for now (pic provided on message)

Anyyway lmk if you're interested 😄

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u/nerdylov — 2 days ago

42 [f4m] humanities nerd, #indiana , open to anywhere, seeking intelligent sensitive intense introverted creative types

Bio: legally blind, mild hearing loss, other chronic health issues, disability rights activist, humanities nerd, INFJ-T/E4w5/possible HSP/melancholic(primary)-choleric(secondary)-phlegmatic(tertiary), rosy yet thorny, optimistic realist, pragmatic, jaded, mislabeled misanthrope, eccentric, deep, dignified, strong morals, generally serious, old soul, Christian, center-left, independent, opinionated, “b*llsy”, intense, feminist, no-nonsense, a bit subversive, Classicist/Latinist, heteroromantic/Gray Ace/demi/sapio, Alpha, Not your inspiration/good deed/f*tish.

Looking for someone who:

Is25-49, is a gentleman, shares similar intelligence, values, personality and/or interests, preferably blind or otherwise disabled, if non-disabled, not ableist. Near or far.

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u/AuroraNebulosa — 3 days ago

[F4M] 28F #Kentucky

Edit: forgot to put this in there. I’m 5’8”-5’9” ish. Would prefer someone the same height as me or taller.

Looking for my player 2. Really into PC gaming. My favorite game right now would have to beMarvel Rivals (comp, peak Diamond 2)
Really into tech, and will be graduating soon with my degree in Cybersecurity. Prefer someone with a good stable career and income as I will have the same.
Childfree by choice and I intend to stay that way. Not into anyone with kids or poly.
Not into conservative men at all.
Not into anyone not in the US.
🫶🏾🖤

u/LateNightDrift — 7 days ago

32 F from #Philippines, serious applicants only ❤😘

Im a single mom of 1. I am looking for a man who’s ready for something real loyal, makes effort, knows how to treat a woman right, and has a provider mindset. Bonus if you’re emotionally mature and consistent ✨

u/Spiritual_Visual_927 — 5 days ago

29 [M4F] #UK / #EU / #USA - Nerdy English loner seeking someone to un-alone him at last

Hi! I'm Marc. I'm 29 and I live near Manchester, England. I'm on my eternal quest for my forever girl. I'm going to try and give you a fairly detailed idea of me so you can make an informed decision on whether to reach out to me. As you can see, I'm 6'2, pale, and happily underweight. Some quick dealbreakers out of the way... I'm child-free and I intend to get a vasectomy. I can't live with pets. I can be your pet xD Or you mine, I'm easy. I'm more of a wild animals person. And I'm not one for long-distance tavel because I'm not sure I could sit on a plane for 3+ hours. I'm open to long-distance dating provided you have a reasonable way of getting to me because if I'm honest, I probably won't be able to get to you, unless you're in Yorkshire ha :) If you're in Britain, we could meet half-way on the train or something. If you're not, I guess I just have to be an excellent landing party.

I'm looking for somebody who won't just bail on me over the tiniest of thing, and I am attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I'm not bothered about height.

For anybody still here, hi. I'm a very open person. I value honesty, but, of course, I try and be polite. I'm a bit socially awkward sometimes, but I try and not make a complete fool of myself. I generally mean no harm. I care a lot about the people I let into my life. Even though I'm 29, I still love a bit of silly fun. My sense of humour is a mix of dry, absurd, abstract, dark, and a bit dirty lol. But I think I know when to be serious. I can be a bit sensitive, but I'm good at gritting my teeth and not causing drama. I probably get attached too easily, so please don't abuse that lol. I mostly keep to myself. I don't do night clubs, big parties, loud concerts, that sort of thing. I prefer 1-1 interactions or small groups. However, if for some reason I find myself with an audience, I will perform xD I do like a bit of a sing and dance. I have limbs which are rather flexible. I like to spend time in my cave, but I also love going for walks around the woods and fields or around town, or even sometimes up a hill, and I love the occasional bus-trip. So watching films together, TV series, or perhaps playing a game, or whatever takes your fancy, are on the cards. Or we could just be old school, and, y'know, snuggle. I also am wont to go down intellectual rabbitholes. I tend to get fixated on things, and then sometimes just switch over to something else, or stay on the same thing for weeks. When I was a kid I used to love getting dressed up, but as an adult I haven't had any in-person friends who have wished to do so, so I'd definitely be open to cosplay. We could have a costume chest at the end of the bed! :]

I have OCD and anxiety, and I eat a restrictive diet. I view myself as a work in progress. As a consequence, I'm currently unemployed, but I did work for 6 years as a software-engineer. I guess I shall seek out another work-from-home office-y type job when I'm able. Right now I could only do part-time, but employers tend to want 9-5, you see. I do have savings to buy a flat from when I was a software-engineer, so I'm not a complete financial liability. Lol am I housewife material? xD So I guess it makes sense if you have some challenge of your own, else you might view me as a dead weight, albeit maybe a sometimes pretty one lol.

Hopefully some of this was enjoyable to read. If you're interested, please send me a brief intro to yourself with like two photos, and we'll see where this goes! I love getting to know somebody new :)

~Marc

u/go-you-can-low-how — 5 days ago

23 femboy [M4M] #illinois

I’d love a nerdy man who’s likeminded. Idk where to start or how to even word this. As title suggests, I am a femboy. Pretty small and petite. All I’ve ever wanted is a boyfriend who shares similar interests and will play pokemon with me :3, I am a Nintendo gamer mainly. Hmu if you’d like to chat

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u/sinnohfemboi — 6 days ago

27, [M4F], #London, Looking for a nerdy girl who’s into history as much as me!

Don’t be deceived by my looks I’m polite and soft spoken. I am a model by day book worm by night. I have a troubled past but I don’t let it define me and it doesn’t reflect the person I am today. I’m a massive history and movie nerd and would love to find someone to bore with my endless facts about random things! Feel free to dm me if you would like to get to know me.

u/Large_Island3199 — 6 days ago

23F #Texas looking for genuine people to connect with

I’d really love to meet kind and authentic people I can talk to openly and share my thoughts with. I value friendships where people support each other’s growth instead of turning everything into quiet competition because of their own insecurities. I just want connections that feel healthy, uplifting, and genuine.

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u/FewPay4899 — 5 days ago

26 [F4A] #Netherlands nerdy alt girl looking for longterm partner <3

Hey I'm a small light skinned alt girl from the Netherlands and I'm looking for a long-term partner

My life is a mix of hitting the gym and being deeply creative—whether I’m drawing, sculpting, writing, or diving into creepypastas. I also play guitar and love bands like Bullet For My Valentine, Get Scared, and Alesana.
I’m a massive horror fanatic, so I’d love a partner who wants to spend hours on calls watching movies together—everything from Hellraiser and Evil Dead to Final Destination, Split, and El Hoyo.I’m really looking for a romantic, poetic partner who can be my person :) If you’re down for a dedicated, artsy connection where we truly share our worlds, I’d love to hear from you. 🖤🥀

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u/Right-Upstairs859 — 6 days ago

28F [F4M] #PH Looking for long term

Hi! I’m 28 years old from the Philippines, and I’m 155 cm tall. I’m here hoping to find a genuine, long-term connection. (NO NSFW PLEASE)I would describe myself as someone who is both reflective and a little random in a fun way. I can be quiet at first, but once you get to know me, I’m actually quite funny. People often describe me as bubbly and easy to talk to. I completed three majors in college, and I’m currently pursuing my master’s degree with the goal of becoming a psychologist someday.

Hobbies & Interests

I have a lot of hobbies (sometimes even I can’t keep up xD)

• I love learning languages. I can speak some Japanese, mostly from watching anime since I was a kid. I can also read Korean because I had a Korean classmate in high school.

• I enjoy reading, especially romance and crime novels.

• I listen to true crime podcasts while doing chores.

• I’ve been using Duolingo and currently have a

546-day streak and still going strong!💪🏻

• I love food a lot, I can talk about it all day 😄

• I’m not a competitive gamer, but I enjoy relaxing games like Stardew Valley.

What I’m Looking For

• No NSFW
• Ages 27–38
• Open to long-distance
• No children and never been married
Wants children someday
• Someone who is supportive, kind, and emotionally mature
• Has a stable job or is actively working toward his goals
• Communicates well and values honesty
• Preferably taller than me 😄

Most importantly, I’m looking for a serious, long-term connection. If you’re not looking for something genuine or long-term, please don’t message me.

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u/sparklingglitters_ — 5 days ago

20 [M4F] #Sydney

I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for. It's been a while since I've dated anyone, I don't go out much, so its dificult to meet new people. I work from home, and I have a good amount of free time. I don't need someone with similar interests as long as they're happy to hear about mine. I am into a good amount of nerdy stuff, and I'm open to trying new stuff as long as I'm not doing it alone. I'm not exactly sure what to put down as I don't expect much to come from this, but feel free to ask me anything, and we can go from there.

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u/Distinct-Software-70 — 6 days ago

30 female VA (but the southern part) Im a big nerd. 5'10.

Honestly, in my free time I’m a bit of a homebody. I read a lot (like 200 books a year), mostly thrillers and psychological horror/suspense stuff. But also philosophy and poetry. I do a little painting here and there nothing fancy just for fun, and I like kayaking when I get the chance. But most of the time, you’ll find me chilling at home playing games, reading or watching something. I have one cat who's my sweet baby.

I play PC games and TTS board games (magic the gathering and other board games). i just want a simple life. settle down, get married to my soul mate, and let the rest lie where it will.

is romance dead??

Disclaimers:

I dont drive

I dont 420

And im fat for now (pic provided on message)

Anyyway lmk if you're interested 😄

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u/nerdylov — 11 days ago

M|32|pan [M4T] #australia worst person you'll ever meet.

Tbh I'm not really sure what's wrong with me but this subreddit keeps popping up, I hate nerds but I too am a NERD. I like horror, gore, godzilla, pretty much anything except funko pops every time I see those things I want all my internal organs to explode in a display for all to watch as I gouge my eyes out of my sockets, but that's just me.

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u/KINGPORNUSER — 6 days ago