r/INFJers

• Having to rely on people
• Hypocrisy, dishonesty
• Misread intentions
• Having their insights and ideas dismissed or ignored
• Toxic people
• Harsh non-constructive criticism
• Having to talk on the phone
• Having zero autonomy
• Self-righteous pointificators
• Disloyal friends
• Greediness
• Unnecessary rudeness
• People who are fake, two-faced, and superficial
• People who can’t take a joke
• Inflexibility
• Conflict
• Having to explain emotions
• Sensor type thinking
• Failure
• Small talk
• Injustice
• Disrespect
• Not seeing progress on a goal
• Non-passionate people, close-mindedness
• People with low self-awareness
• People with no standards
• Attempting to manipulate them
• Disorganization, messiness
• Saying goodbye to someone they care about
• Being rushed or pressured to act or decide without allowing them to process it first

Feel free to add your own below.

Money has always rubbed me the wrong way. Tell your boss: "You can't put a dollar value on my worth, my time, my life" - They can down to the penny, denominate your life-force and then report it to the IRS. You earn x and are told the ills of your situation can be fixed by earning x+? There is no other system so your are condemned to be within it without any choice. You are at the mercy of wild swings of inflation, fraud, mismanagement, credit scores, fear, greed, as to what its value is with regard to spending and its stored value. It is used as a leveraged societal weapon of prejudice, manipulation, regressive control, a scorecard and illusion of 'success', but in reality; servitude. Your very life may well hinge on having it or not, the quality of your care, your future and so much else.

It's literally made up, fiat by nature and every dollar birthed is done so with and into debt; the very system is a Ponzi scheme. I've been told: "Yeah, but if you were rich you would think differently"... Ironically I am very wealthy and I still hate it with every fiber of my being. I feel guilt for it even though It was wrought by extreme discipline, a complete lack of desire for things, very high levels of self-sufficiency, a hobby-like knack for it understanding the game (greed), and to be very frank; survival in a system where I have no other choice, esp as I age alone.

I guess my best reason why I hate money, even with an abundance is It can't and can never buy what I want even stacked to the moon. I want a just society, a kind society, one that truly cares for each other, that's happy, peaceful, not a mental asylum, cohesive and well-educated. I don't expect 'utopia', I simply wish for much, much better where this can happen so much more than is via a change of thought, never with dollars that only drive the opposite.

For my fellow money haters, what else can you add? Thank you.