r/Friendzone

I was in a relationship till my 11th STD with the most beautiful girl I have ever seen.But she broke up with me cuz we were then having long distance.I never had her for the intention to have sex with her ,but as I have grown I can't help but ache for the experience.I have been looking for a really understanding partner for this but I just can't seem to find them anywhere.i have tried website, instagram, twitter everything but still couldn't even find someone online .I think imma die a pure virgin or like a more e virgin

So me and my ex have been broken up for around 2 months, we ended on mostly good terms as we realised we didn’t really match and weren’t made for eachother. There were some issues of mine though that did convince her to breakup which I deeply regret and have been working on improving myself so it doesn’t happen again.

Either way we have a rocky friendship, she is even more romantic now we arnt offical and we have had sex a few times since the breakup, this alongside both of us admitting we still love eachother has made an environment where it’s awkward but we are trying to manage.

Last night was really hard and it’s still going on now, she went out for a girls night but ended up staying later and then bringing a guy back to the flat (I think you can guess what is probably happened) it’s about mid day the next day and they are still in her room to my guess just talking and scrolling. While she has had sex with another guy before the fact she brought him back here is also really hurting me.

I want to move on from her and she does too but the fact she’s bringing people back and having sex is making me so hurt inside and I struggle at socialising so trying to find a one night stand isn’t really working for me.

How can I move on from her while still keeping my friendship and a place to live?

Who else wanna have a secret letter sender friend, what i mean is someone or bunch of people who lives abroad ( not from you country ) and you exchange letters with them from time to time, i really wanna do it. It feels like litterally guys you can talk about anything and you sure the other one while not judge or ignore you or tell you whatever comes to their minds. those letter friend xan help you out even with one advice that came from them in an honest way and they are really people who makes the effort to send you back a letter which really matters, adding to that the fact that you guys can express your opinions/perspective/sadness/happiness/thoughts or anything comes to you minds and you still gonna feel free. I AM LOOKIGN FORWARD TO DO IT TBH

(20f)

so i had a close friend that we actually had a very good harmony together, we basically spent a lot of time together eventhough we knew each other for a short period of time. After a while i had really bad family problem that got me depressed and i could not move on, so i became that weird, pessimist girl that talks to no one with all negative energy. Anyway, because of that period of my life, i was sensitive and what happened is one day he did an irrespectful thing (kinda mock me infront of a friend but he though he was just jocking) so i got mad, eventhough he still think he was kiding so when i got home i dm him and actually had an argument: i said kinda mean personal stuff to him so he did but let's say i was more harsh and subjective then kinda never talked again, we muted each other and after months i removed the mute and he did so and back to normal online(but we never talked). They thing is that, it been like 10 months and i been able to got my shit together and to change for the better, and i start thinking that he might owe me an apology (i mean i am thinking abt the good time we spend together and the good things that he did to me) eventhough i know i also might owe him an apology too. I feel the people that really caused me pain and suffer are the one that i still in touch with them(eventhough i am obliged too) and the one that kinda really meant to me (friendship) we don't.

Do you think i should let it go or should i dm after all that (i know he will accept it and it might give a possibility to make things right or to just end it in a good way i mean at the end we had a strong friendship anyway and he been good for me as much as he can i guess).

Like many people in here I am looking to expand my very short group friends. It can be any gender, age or life situation. What is more important is to be able or at least try to follow a few steps. If you can relate to the following, we already have some common ground to build on.

1. In the beginning; we are all very sensitive to be neglected.
2. Is it worth spending time and effort on this person, this is the question that most of us face in the start-up period.
3. Most of us then see that the other person very often tend to at some point ignore you, which makes the time to get confident and secure on the other person very hard, you may end up dropping each other soon.
4. Answering your new friend is vital, preferably also with apx the same amount of effort, not creating an imbalance in the effort from the start. Meeting someone require an effort, asking questions, be more curious than you normally are. Some simply answers in short questions from the other. You should often at least put the question back.
5. A starting conversation should almost always end each message with a question, if not, it may end up being a one-sided interview – indicating that the interest is only from one side.
6. You need to also give something to receive something.

Last spring, I started talking more with a guy from my running group, and we studied together a couple of times (same university). I was just getting to know him bc we're in the same major, and I wanted more of a community, but soon after, I got the sense that he had a thing for me. I am not into him. I distanced myself and started being more and more dry. I want to keep on friendly terms to preserve the vibes of the running group. It'd be nice if we could truly just be friends and I didn't have to freeze him out to prevent him from hitting on me, but maybe that's unrealistic.

It's been a year, and he still sends me reels. They're not inappropriate, but I am utterly uninterested. I don't check Instagram often, I never send reels to him, and I react as minimally as possible without fully ghosting him (maybe react with a non-heart emoji, other times leave him on read). Is it not obviously not reciprocated? I talk to him noticeably less than the others in the group, though I'm friendly when we do talk (mostly initiated by him). He recently sent me something about one baby stealing another's bottle. I reacted 👍.

I've been so dry for so long. Bro keeps sending me reels. Advice?

We've been friends for 5 years, on VC almost daily, used to send me even small messages like what she doing and stuff (since we live quite far as I'm out of the country rn) I didn't mean to but in a rather erratic way this past 2 months she's been "very busy", no vc, not even messages, and when we do, replies take hours and hours and that just made me feel like an empty shell which is a feeling I am familiar with and I haven't felt for a long time, this is it, right? And at the same time, because I posted this here, this is it, right?

Ah, well, time to walk ig.

I (male) have been close friends with a girl for several years. We met at the gym, and in the beginning it was a bit unclear what we were. It felt like things were going in a dating direction, but neither of us ever brought it up or defined it.

After a while, it just naturally turned into a friendship without us ever talking about it.

Now like 5-6 years later, we are extremely close — basically best friends. We have deep conversations, support each other in everything, and even tell each other if we’re seeing someone else and support each other through that.

One time we were at the gym with her mom, and she took a picture of us and sent it to their family group chat. Later I found out her grandma commented something like, “oh, what a cute boyfriend she has.”

What confuses me is that we’re not really “typical friends”:

• We call each other “babe”

• We sometimes say “I love you”

• We have a very strong emotional connection

For me, feelings have started to grow again, and now I don’t really know what to do.

I’m afraid of:

• Ruining the friendship if I say something

• Or staying in something that could be more, but never exploring it

It feels even weirder because we kind of started as something more, but never followed through.

My questions:

• Has anyone been in a similar situation?

• Does it sound like she might have feelings too, or could this just be friendship for her?

• Is saying “I love you” a sign of something more, or not necessarily?

• Should I bring it up, or do I risk losing everything?

I don’t want to live with a “what if,” but I also don’t want to lose her.

Any advice is appreciated 🙏

Met this girl we have been friends for around 1.5 years. We met at university and study different subjects but we are really close friends. We both had long distance partners and i broke up with my girlfriend and she went on a break with her boyfriend and currently is on a break. We talk everyday for hours and share lots of personal things, because she’s on a break I think she doesn’t speak to her bf that much as we are always talking. I have developed feelings for her but when we speak it is clear she thinks of me as a friend and only that even though she sometimes flirts and gets touchy with me. She did mention she might break up with her boyfriend soon. Do I keep being her friend and wait till her breakup? I can’t stop thinking about her and she does always message me first and call me etc but then she calls me bro and says I feel like we will be friends forever. Can someone give me some advice please

Some months ago I was hanging out with a girl.

She had to go pee.

She insisted on me coming and standing watch.

When she was finished she said I could turn around.

She wasn’t finished though. Her panties were still around her ankles. Intense Eye contact while pulling em up.

Recently I was hanging out with long time friend.

Long talks led to her telling me she has a hidden love for me.

She had to go to pee.

Behind a van she did her thing. While i stood guard.

Told me to look how she’s handling it.

She was sat on the back bumper relieveing herself.

Now I’m wondering if this is a fluke, if this is a test, if this is a different type of deep show of trust?

Or do I just know nasty chicks?

M25 from India Bored AF, looking for friends to chat with 😅

DM me if you’re up for it! 💬

am very excited about it I never been in a benefits relationship means friends with benefits now I am thinking but I don't have friends like that so am searching for it , she must be baddie you and open minded if you seeing then text me babe , none gonna knows

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Hi I am omar from Egypt

I don't have a real friends actually

Most of the time I bored or play alone

I have a pc but so week

can't play the latest games

And I love music actually

\*And actually not great at in English\*

So u can tech me maybe 😅

Idk what also I cant write

I hope this is enough and not make fun of me