r/FarangsofPattaya

How to hotwife in Pattaya/BKK?

My partner is a very attractive, petite 29yo Vietnamese girl. She’s shy but kinky AF and is very into me sharing her with other guys (which suits me fine :).

She’s always had a real thing for the Asian Street Meat / TukTuk Patrol videos; that ‘being treated like a street girl’ is a major fantasy.

Wondering how realistic it would be to spend a week in Pattaya or Bangkok and find guys to take her to their hotel room, or come to ours? (Not charging obviously). Ideally a small group of friends on holiday. I know 99% of guys say they are up for that kind of thing, but our experience in Australia at least, is that it’s actually quite hard to make happen: guys flake more often than not. Logistically what would the best way to make this happen? Don’t want to cause trouble by ‘competing’ with girls in bars.

Edit: looking for advice, not messages from randoms or expressions of interest. 🙏

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u/_SYMR_ — 1 day ago

Heading to pattaya in June. I really want to bang bangs one of the Instagram models. Price? Possibilities?

Im decent looking half Thai. When the girls find out they really like it. Treat me well and such. So i assume I may have a chance. But I found it hard to LT last trip in high season. And even see one of these chicks around. Is there way can set it up?

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u/Mother_Lead_554 — 2 days ago
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So much less “hello hansum” this time around

I’ve realized so much less “hello hansum” being tossed around, compared to only a few months back. Even, the 7/11s speakers don’t mention “hello wercum” no more it’s only the beeping sound

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u/bellyFinger6 — 3 days ago
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Did I get ripped off gogo bar

I got quoted 5k for ST but only 8k for LT as they put it LT would be a steal. This was after I paid 11k baht in 3 liquor shot towers and a bunch of loose drinks at Suzy Wongs.

I dont care about the drinks, wanted to know if the ST LT price is really this high or they thought I was a sucker. ( I took the LT)

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u/CommercialMassive751 — 5 days ago

Getting over Breakup

Bit of a simp post but last week my relationship of 11 years ended and I feel absolutely destroyed, I am 41 years old and acceptable shape (regular gym goer) but I dont see any way moving forward, do you guys think a month of crazy Pattaya action would help healing getting over my Ex ? I have never done anything like this before, brothel or anything, last 11 years was just straight monogamous,
Thanks for any response

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u/Waiguoren84 — 5 days ago

Bar hosts for foreigner women?

A female foreigner friend is visiting me here in Thailand.

She asked me if she could have some "fun" with men, as she saw in some movies that thai women go there to pay hosts for drinks and fun nights...

I guess those bars are for thai women as little English will be spoken. Can foreigner women go? Do you know any?

Bangkok or Pattaya are okay for recommendations

Thanks

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u/Fancy-Respect-2007 — 1 day ago
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I was young and stupid and drunk when I booked that flight to Thailand - thought I wanted a "cultural experience" and ended up with a one way ticket to "what the actual hell". He was sweet at first, all soft curves and delicate hands, that wasn't the problem - the problem was when he leaned in for a kiss and my brain short-circuited trying to figure out if I should be grossed out or impressed by the expert way he handled my hips. Now I can't look at a kathoey without wondering if my standards are next-level messed up, and honestly? Part of me kind of wants to find out.

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u/CommercialMassive751 — 7 days ago

上海最正宗的生煎馒头和小笼汤包出现在泰国芭提雅Shanghai Pen-Fried Brun

u/lot-yes — 11 hours ago

Is Pattaya yacht party worth?

Me and my 2 friends are going to Pattaya on August. We are planning for a yacht party in Pattaya, I checked prices so it's around 2400 Baht per person.

I just have one question is it worth?

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u/Independent-Wolf8889 — 2 days ago

So are Americans and Europeans really paying these high ST/LT apple prices from the Ploys especially the ones that work at the Bars?

I’m hearing way too many stories lately of falang foreigners traveling to Pattaya and some of the ploys are telling them ridiculous prices of

5,000 apples for ST, and 8,000LT apples

That’s basically 2-3 weeks of a monthly wage working a 40 hour job in Thailand in a span of 1-6 hours.😂

Meanwhile some of these foreigners actually pay it it’s because they either don’t know what’s going on or they are that desperate.

Meanwhile these same ploys then try and tell everyone else even their long term clients about a new price which cause foreigners to maybe think it’s time to stop traveling over to Pattaya even if you are a attractive young man,

I thought not going above 3,000 for ST/LT was still the rule in 2026?

It wasn’t like this back in 2021-2025

Is it a simp epidemic or are men this desperate and the ploys have a huge ego now?

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u/TravelingEctasy — 4 days ago

Anyone else randomly watch Pattaya livestreams?

Randomly came across lasvegaslivestream on YouTube the other night and somehow ended up watching way longer than I expected 😅

Feels way more authentic than most overproduced YouTube content these days. I’ve started leaving it on in the background at night.

Am I the only one who watches stuff like this?

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u/NarrowInstruction552 — 4 days ago

Anyone else here?

Came to Pattaya last year with my mate, both had times of our lives unfortunately he hasn’t been able to come this time now although im having a great time there’s nothing like going out with somebody down Pattaya, is there anyone 20yo or near in Pattaya atm that wants a fucked up night on walking street or soi 6?

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Where?

I'd rather not have a bar girl or freelancer at my place if i don't have to. She'd have to be pretty charming and really Damn good looking for that.

Are there proper brothels here?

Not massage parlors. But brothels like we have in Australia. Go in pick your girl go into a nice room with a shower and a hot tub. Leave in an hour.... or whatever...

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u/EffectiveDesperate40 — 11 days ago

How is October for visiting Pattaya?

Hi guys. Been in Pattaya once for a week and this time I want to go properly. How is the weather and scene and crowds and everything else in October?

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u/Matt_Bigmonster — 5 days ago

I'll start with the TL/DR: Does Pattaya Ploy always leans SO heavily on the sick buffalo routine, or am I somehow giving off major newbie vibes?

Last time I was in Thailand was about 4 years ago, tail-end of Covid, Krabi and Phuket. Great time overall; only once did the buffalo show up in bed. Fair game.

So I pull into Pattaya 3 days ago. First time here. I bar fine ploy in Tree Town (me like long time). Barely do we make it two blocks before her family members start coming down with incurable diseases. At the very least, back in Krabi, ploy waited until AFTER I had gotten my money's worth before story time began. Bad luck, I thought; crack on mate.

But last night really took the cake: Another Tree Town bar fine. This one simply wouldn't stop with the dead and dying uncles, aunts and grandpas. She showed me a damn picture of a corpse for f's sake. We're still fully clothed! What happened to the cat pics? I finally gave her a 1K bill for her time and sent her home. No boom boom. How could I with that decomposing corpse burned onto my retina?

Me like long time? Me thought me did.

I try my best not to come off as a mark, but they take one look at me and think they've scored the Glengarry leads. How do I dismantle that assumption BEFORE the bar fine? Ideas?

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u/Different_Sherbet449 — 13 days ago