Before you ask, no, I'm not 25LPA+

I'm at bit lower end, but stable, no debts, SIP chalu hai, life sorted enough.

Fraud Investigator by job (so if you're planning to scam me, bad idea !!!)

6ft+ if that helps my case here.

Did vietnam recently, japan next on the list, I like exploring, especially local food, not luxury flex travel.

Job is chill, I value peace more than hustle culture tbh.

Don't drink, don't smoke, don't do unnecessary drama either.

Not a party person. more into normal things conversations that don't feel forced, random walks, trying new food places.

Music/movies mostly international, bollywood thoda kam.

I'm a bit reserved initially but straightforward. no ghosting, no games.

Not looking for timepass / situationship. just someone genuine, sorted, and normal (rare combo here I guess)

If you've read till here, you're already above average effort !

Dm kar lena, let's see if this works 🖖

I've so many things pending to do and have responsibilities but whenever I sit in free time I get the thoughts of having a girl. Touching her Smoothly and Open my heart and thoughts and also Kiss her and do romantic stuff like a teen couple do.

But it all started when I got a crush on my friend and she rejected me and I was dumb and deprived of her attention that I started to convince her 3-4 times in 8 months. And finally i Accepted the defeat but the relationship and loneliness thoughts comes daily. It has been a year and still the feeling of holding hands and having a girl Frustrated me a lot. I'm 20 years old recently graduated and at home.

I've been recently thinking about the things or situations we fear and have feared them since very long.

So i have been wanting to ask that if you can delete one of your fears (it can be anything), what would you get rid of ?

Tell me something you're incredibly proud about yourself ?

or

that is like an achievement for you ?

Just an introvert f 19 here try to socialise help me out any advise is appreciated

21M here.

Not even sure if this is the right sub, but it has “mingle” in the name so here goes.

In my 21 years of life, I’ve never really had a close friendship or relationship with women. I’m pretty introverted, but I did try talking to girls I liked during school and college. Most of the time it either became awkward or I got insulted/made fun of, and honestly that just made me more insecure over time.

Now I overthink every interaction before it even happens.

The thing is, I don’t even want to “impress” women anymore. I just want to understand them better and be able to talk normally without feeling nervous or judged. I’m not some smooth talker and I don’t have great conversation skills, but I genuinely think I can be a decent friend if I get comfortable.

Sometimes it feels like everyone else naturally figured this stuff out except me.

Anyone else been through this? How did you become more comfortable talking to women without forcing it?

Yoo bhot time se inactive hone ki wajah se aadhe se jyada reddit ke logo se cut ho gya🥀🥀.

So anyone up for some chat, tell me something interesting.

Ps: a guy here so bhai up for sexting mt likhna dm mein 🙏🙏

Mai tumhe bhul rahi hu ab

Mai tumhe bhul rahi hu ab,

Tumhare lamho ko, tumhari baato ko, samet rahi hu,

Dheere dheere sab,

Mai tumhe bhul rahi hu ab,

Tumhare us izhar ko, tumhare is inkar ko, yaad kr rhi thi,

na jane kitna aur kab,

Mai tumhe bhul rahi hu ab,

.

Ye jo piroye the maine, hasrate apni dheere dheere,

Ye jo duniya simat gyi thi, tujh me hi,

Tujh me hi re,

Ye jo khud ko roz haule se khud se hi door bhagaya hai,

Ye tumse door, akele rhne ki tadap Ko maine chhudaya hai,

Ye jo door is duniya ko kar paas tumhe laya hai,

Aasakta sakta si vyatha m jaane kitna khudko roz gawaya hai,

Ek tukda toot sa jata tha mujhse yuh pal har pal,

Jo aaj mai hu wo aur bhi tu ho jata tha yun kal,

Itna tujhme bas leen thi, Mai, khudse zyada vileen thi, mai,

Bas gaya bas, gaya bhi wo, is ardh badan m jo heen thi, mai,

Ab is badan se kuch yun adhar tumhare khiche ja rha hai rab,

Mai ishq ke naam se khauf me hu,

Mai tumhe bhula Rahi hu ab,

.

Mai khwab me shakle uski itna dekha karti thi,

Mujhe aaine me uski rooh uljhi dikhti thi,

Meri aankhein ab jo mujhe dekhne ko marti thi,

Mai khud ko, khud se suljhi dikhti thi,

Mere badan pe mere haath Kam raha karte the,

Uski aankhein ise kuch Yun dekh liya karti thi,

Ki ab dhakne lagi hu har uska chua hua kona,

Tum aao na ab, tum door mujhe inse karo na,

Ab,

Mujhe ghutan si hone lagi hai,

Ye bechain hawa jo meri sagi hai,

Mujh me so rha hai pyaar tumhara,

Ye nafrat ku-baku jagi hai,

Tum, aa jao na wapas,

Tumhari yaad se hi mera man vyakul ho uthta hai,

Mai kaid to krdu dil m in yaado ko,

Par us bojh tale dil mera yun dukhta hai,

Ki mai parat-dar-parat fek rahi hu inko aisi jagah,

Ki inko wapas naa aane ko mile jab,

Ye bhi tadpe virah me, meri peeda ki tarah,

Ye bhi samjhe, bichadne ka matlab,

Mai gawa rahi hu yaade tumhari,

Mai tumhe bhul rahi hu ab,

.

Aur,

Ab jo meri ashru bhi tum tak na hi pahuch payenge,

Mere shabdo ka jawab tum dena na chahoge,

Meri shakal se tumko ghrina si ho Rahi hai,

To meri maut dastak de, to kya ruk jaoge?

Khair,

Lakeero ki jo maani hoti maine, to mujhse pahle tum mujhe bhula chuke hote,

Ye jo pal har pal aankhein bheeg rahi hai meri,

Ye vyatha tumhari hoti, ye aansu tumhare hote,

Par mai ruk si gyi us rab ko nakaar kar,

Dekha kismat ko mujhse hi haar kar,

Wo aayegi to kehne mujhse tujhko zakhmi kar mai rahungi,

Kar gyi zakhmi mujhe, tumhare haatho se maar kar,

Aur tum ik shann bhi nhi soche hoge is malaal ke panapne par ab,

Mere andar sik rhi peeda ke tapne par ab,

Tum to mud gye, keh ke ki nahi ho payega rehna,

Chhod Gaye mujhe thama yaha, farz ki yha apne par ab,

To phir thik hai,

Mai bhi khudko khud sa hi dekhungi, us aaine me jisme chhaya tumhari basti thi,

In kaano ko dard sunaungi jisme tumhari hasi hansti thi,

Us sparsh ko ab door karungi, jo chubh rhi thi, kansti thi,

Un hotho ko kehne dungi, jo adhro ke tere tarasti thi,

Aur ant me,

Mai tumhari har ik tasveer ko dil ke, dil se zyada qareeb rakhti thi,

Yaad karungi kabhi thoda, thoda us bichad jaane ko,

Tumhare jate hue kadmo to jo meri behti aankhein takti thi,

Ab har rishta bikhra hai, har naata, har matlab,

Mai khudko yaad kar rahi hu,

Mai tumhe bhul rahi hu ab.

~ Akvira

Hello, fellows of DesiMingle community! I am Teacher and I took a CL due to fever, I am bored, ask me Questions that you can't normally ask, Intersting/weird/brainrot anything goes! I will try to answer every question but will priorities funny/intersting/weird ones. Go on shoot your questions!