r/CompulsiveSkinPicking

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popping bumps

hi guys, i know i came on here last week and posted but i wanted some more advice

along with picking at scabs, most of my picking is popping stuff like pimples but mostly the kp bumps on my arms

theres just something so satisfying about popping these little bumps and expecting smth to shoot out of them that i find myself seeing a bump and then just spiraling all around my arms searching for more and popping every single bump that looks like it has potential

it’s gotten so bad the past week that ive found myself spending at least 2 hours in a single bout roving over my arms searching like a starving animal and im so ashamed of it especially bc this is the worst it’s been in a hot min

does anyone else pop like i do and if so do yall have any advice on how to stop? i want to heal my kp and stop picking but its just been so hard

TLDR: i pop my kp bumps any advice on how to stop or just general knowledge?

again thank you to everyone in the supportive community im very grateful that this space exists 🫶

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u/Chance_Rooster7488 — 3 hours ago

Starting see scars fading

I’ve had a pretty rough 5 months worth of face picking and I just started applying less self-destructive ways to deal with my anxiety, it’s been about 3 weeks since I last picked, I hope to keep the momentum going!!!

u/Consistent-Bake9904 — 10 hours ago
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Me everyday

Made this because I got back into my skin picking habits. It’s really bad since I bleed A LOOOTT. But I can’t stop. I think it’s thinning my hair 😢

u/t34cat — 19 hours ago

What is this? I’m scared. Anyone had this?

Hi all… so about a week and half ago I noticed this on my back shoulder. I picked it and felt relief and couldn’t stop, it was a “hole” what it felt like, like at least little surface crater around it to best to describe it. I stupidly kept giving into compulsion.

Anyhow… I’ve been stopping. Yesterday was my last pick.

For past week it would always turn into dark scab. Including this AM.

I cleaned it and put some Manuska honey on it and put bandage on it this AM. When I went to replace the bandage… it seems to have turn this color ? Should I be concerned ??? I’m convinced I have sepsis or staph or flesh eating infection. Idk my OCD is going nuts.

Just how do I take care of this? When I move my shoulder I can feel it, when I tap it lightly it’s sore and I feel it. It also itches a little

I need to get gel nails to stop picking because that really helped me

u/sneakersxO — 3 hours ago
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Where do you pick?

Weirdly, when I see photos of other peoples dermatillomania, it’s mainly their faces, and I was wondering if it’s just me who picks their hands and feet, I just wanted to know if it’s just me who picks their hands and feet this bad!

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u/Own_Horse9041 — 1 day ago

Found out I have dermatophagia.

I've always done this since I was a kid, it started when I was like 8 years old. I was diagnosed with anxiety so that's prob where it comes from. I also most likely suffer from depression from a young age just was never diagnosed professionally but that would also make sense. The biting would be off and on, sometimes real bad or I wouldn't do it at all really. Scabs/injuries hated to see me coming, I would peck till I'd get an infection. I never saw anyone else do it and I would hide it cause I was embarrassed or ashamed. I remember my mom getting angry and telling me to stop, but I just couldn't.

Till today, I found out I have this disorder. I was quite shocked finding that so many others had it or do it. Was also shocked it's considered as some sort of auto cannabalism?? Which scares me but I don't eat the skin or suck the blood on purpose. My skin around my fingers have been so scared they have no sensory and they're purple and rough and ugly it makes me sad. I always tried to stop it which clearly never worked since I'm 19 and still do it. It feels nice knowing that this is an actual thing though (not happy I have it) it makes me feel less weird knowing what I have, that it's an actual thing. it's helped me figure out some solutions and I can relate to others now, it's nice not feeling like I'm the only one experiencing this. Just wanted to share.

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u/sanintpablo — 22 hours ago

Picking deep rooted fibery hairs

These pictures are from sores I’ve created on my breasts… I also get them on my arms, legs, and hips and have similar wounds pretty much everywhere. I have always squeezed and picked at the little flesh colored bumps on my body, and they always come out with a single hair or a cluster of hairs. Sometimes I get hyper focused and it gets way out of control like this. My husband thinks I’m delusional when I tell him there are tiny almost invisible hairs under my skin that are deeply rooted and very hard to get out even with tweezers. Anyone else have experience with this or advice?

u/dovahkiin_d — 1 day ago

Any remedy for damaged skin?

Hi, I've been picking my thumbs since as long as I can remember, at least 17 years. It happens during periods of stress and anxiety; but I've managed to pause several times, however I always end up relapsing due to the fact that the calluses on my thumbs grow like crazy and it becomes too easy to start peeling them away.

  • Is there any remedy to turning these picked areas back to "normal" skin? It feels akin to having foot calluses on my hands. I have to file them down or they become really thick and then my thumbs will split and its very painful. So I'd really love to know if this is achievable, and how!

Pictures of the current state of my thumbs, which is quite good for me!!

Been struggling with this my whole life and finally coming here for help. How can I fix this?

u/wakitriii — 15 hours ago

*graphic* should i go get stitches for my newest massive skin-picking crater?

not my proudest moment. actually, it’s almost certainly my worst skin picking moment but whatever. i thought this was a cyst and i wanted to remove the sac, only once i started it Just Kept Coming. I think there’s still some in there but im not certain bc i forced myself to stop looking and go shower in hope of perhaps not dying of infection 🥰. anyway, looking at the gunk now, I almost think it’s a lipoma? idk.

now, when i say ‘should i go to the doctor’ i know that the obvious answer is yes, but i really don’t want to.

this bad boy was in my armpit, so i literally don’t give af about scarring, and that’s the main reason i see for ppl to get stitches, but idk if this one is too big to heal on its own, so i figured i would come to the experts 🫡.

also tbh i am concerned about the fact that i didnt get all of it but im just not thinking about it lest i go get the tweezers again.

all advice is appreciated!

(2nd pic is what i woke up to this morning after half-picking what i thought was an ingrown hair the other day & then vowing to ignore it (i failed, as you can perhaps see))

u/bunniebumbles — 23 hours ago

I'm deeply depressed

I had a bad relapse like 6 weeks ago on my face and havent managed to recover.

The left side of my face was the only part of it that had nothing on there...till like an hour ago when i ruined it too.

And theyre not just small surface level - i'm talking deep huge wounds that leak for days and leave dark brown scars that take months to fade.

It hasnt been that bad in like 10 years

It hurts to look in the mirror

When someone looks at me i can tell theyre noticing my wounds (obv they have eyes) and it makes me want to die.

I feel so deeply worthless and depressed.

My existence has no meaning and is nothing but pain. I honestly wish i was dead. I just cant take this anymore

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u/Naive-Fly5206 — 1 day ago

tw: gross, what kind of acne is this

hi, i am a compulsive skin picker when it comes to my face and its so horribly embarrassing and awful. but a lot of the time ill feel the texture and start picking and it turns into these gross red spots that do have pus but they dont look like pimples and idk what the term for these are even called so idk how to treat them if idk what it is. what are these and whats the trick for healing them? and is it just from picking or is it a form of acne? can never find anything like it online

u/NaturalEmotional510 — 1 day ago

Straight out of the shower. Yikes.

I find getting my nails done helps prevent this- of which I have an appt today! :)

u/Rude_Wing6350 — 20 hours ago

Mini roll-on with jojoba oil against picking on fingers

Hi everyone,

I joint this sub to find advice for my skin picking struggle. I used to pick/bite on my finger skin.

What really helped me in the last weeks are mini roll-ons which I filled with jojoba oil. I keep them on several places around me (desk, couch, bag etc.). Bought them for 15€ for 10 pieces and put oil in myself (2 ml each).

The effect on the skin is beautiful and it really keeps me away from picking so far. Much recommended!

u/Exact-Landscape9549 — 3 days ago

Years of Picking with Comedone Extractor

Hi guys, just feeling a bit down and hoping someone can relate. I used to struggle with bad forehead acne, so got a comedone extractor in 2016 and used it pretty much every night until 2022 maybe later I’d say. I used to kind of drag it across my face especially forehead to pick all the stuff out compulsively. Years later, I now obsess over the damage I may have done and constantly search for any lines or scars/indents and evidence in general on my face. People like my partner and even AI have said nothing is noticeable, but I can’t help but dwell on what I used to do and the changes it may have made to my skin and if it would have been different if I had not started this habit. Does anyone relate or have any advice?

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u/playgrrl — 2 days ago

Was able to get my legs waxed!

Well, lower legs, my upper legs are still yikes but also that’s pricey so i didn’t even book for that.

I had messaged the salon in advance and they told me they would look at my skin the day of and the lady approved it! And my scars and remaining scabs aren’t as bad as I thought (which isn’t saying much, but I’m able to see the true extent of my damage now). I have a wedding to go to this summer so I am starting a waxing schedule so I can have smooth legs for a dress.

Now I have an outside person to keep me accountable on not picking my legs 😂

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u/No_Relative_7709 — 1 day ago

Finally found something that works!

Just wanted to share something that has finally helped with stopping my picking! I've struggled with skin picking on and off through most of my life, although it's been particularly bad the last couple years. I've tried a bunch of different strategies and bought multiple items that turned out to be useless for me.

It might be a bit too early to say because I just started using them today, but I got these cotton finger cots/covers and I think they'll be a game changer for me. I've been wearing them on some combination of my thumb, index and middle fingers, since those are usually the fingers I use to pick with, so it still leaves my other fingers/hand free so it's not too hot. They're breathable and thin so it doesn't get in the way of using my hands for different activities (other than typing on the phone, but I can either slowly type using an uncovered finger or temporarily remove the cover and replace it right after I'm done). I can still knit even! They are a little bit tight for me, so I've been removing them for a couple min every hour or so, but I think if I cut off some of the fabric, it can be looser.

I started using hydrocolloid patches (the pimple sized ones) recently and they've been pretty useful in keeping me from picking at existing spots. But the problem is that my subconscious is too crafty and keeps finding new places to pick at, so wearing the finger covers stops me from picking anything at all. I'm currently at home 99% of the time, so I'm planning on wearing them all the time (I'd be too self conscious to wear them in public, and my picking is milder when I'm around others anyway since it's hard to hide).

I don't know if I can link them or not, but they look like the ones in the picture and you can find them by looking up "cotton finger cot" on Amazon. Don't get the silicone or latex ones, because they get sweaty and uncomfortable fast.

Anyway, just wanted to recommend trying these out so they can help you like they're helping me! I know what it's like to not be able to stop no matter how hard you try, so hugs to all of you ❤️❤️

u/speculatives — 4 days ago

Can repeated skin picking cause cancer?

My boyfriend is convinced that I will develop skin cancer because I repeatedly rip the skin off my fingers. So the same area is getting deep damage over and over… he says that’s the same as repeated sun damage in the same place that causes skin cancer. Or it at least increases my chances for cell mutation due to repeated skin generation… Is that true?

NOT seeking diagnosis just wondering if there’s any info out there that anyone knows about

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u/This_Gear_465 — 5 days ago