Pulling up to Sarjapura Social tonight with 2 friends. If you’re around and feel like joining, hit me up. Good music, chill conversations, bit of dancing. keeping it easy, no stress. ✨🍻
anyone can dm..no m/f scenes. we'll make sure it's fun and chill for everyone with us. 🤝
Came to Bangalore in 2021 for my MBA, finished it in 2023, and then slowly watched my entire social circle disappear like a free trial ending 💀
One by one, everyone moved back home or to different cities for work… and now I’m still here. Bangalore hasn’t changed, but somehow it feels way more… empty.
I do have colleagues, but let’s be honest — colleagues are not your real friends. They’re just people you complain about work with, not people you build a life with. (Yes, I said it. Fight me.)
I’d say I’m a pretty chill guy overall — not socially awkward, not overly extroverted — just somewhere in the middle. But lately, it does get lonely sometimes.
So yeah, just wanted to ask:
- How do you actually meet new people here as an adult?
- Does anyone else feel this weird “post-college social vacuum”?
- And how do you go from knowing people… to actually having friends again?
- Anyone here want to connect ? 😅😂
Because right now, it feels like I upgraded my degree but downgraded my social life 😅
>Hey girls! Let’s be real: Bumble and Hinge in Bengaluru are exhausting. We are all dealing with the same dead-end conversations and ghosting. I was completely burned out.
Recently, I took part in a small, private "blind matching" experiment. Instead of swiping, I just gave my absolute dealbreakers to a curated list, and they matched me directly. And honestly? It worked. I actually found a great guy without the algorithm stress.
It worked so well that I'm teaming up with the guys who built it to scale this into a proper startup for us. But before we build the full app, we need to run a larger beta test to prove this human-curated system works better than the apps.
We have a closed, pre-vetted roster of guys ready to go. Now we just need you.
Here is how the Vibematch beta works for us:
The Girls-Only Beta Form: https://forms.gle/5bG1xu753GVznXwM8
Note: Dropping your Insta ID on the form is optional, but it helps me verify you aren't a Reddit troll and puts you at the absolute front of the queue. Make sure your Reddit DMs are open so I can send you your match!
I really want this to be the fix we all need for dating in the city. Test it out, and drop any questions in the comments. Let's go girlyiess! 🥂
I’m hosting a small strangers meetup for Mallus tomorrow evening in Madiwala. Just a casual chai + conversation scene. No networking, no agenda — just meet new people.
Details:
• 📍 Location: Madiwala
• 🕒 Time: Tomorrow evening
• 👥 Limit: 6 people only (2 F ,1 M in already)
• ☕ Plan: Chai, talk, maybe snacks
Idea is to keep it very small so everyone actually talks and it doesn’t become an awkward big meetup. No ticketing or payment. Dm if interested!
Hey guys, I’m 35, based in Hebbal, Bengaluru — fit and easygoing.
Looking to connect with fun, like-minded women in the city. Maybe go for a drive, good music, and chill vibes.
If that sounds like your kind of scene, feel free to DM
Zendaya and Robert Pattinson are the lead in case
20F, looking for a long term sugar relationship.
Dm me daddiess with ASL
only virtual for now
22f free today from 11am any one up for fwn