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It’s difficult for me to give other people grace and understanding when they cross what I view as clearly-identifiable moral lines.

I end up burning bridges, regardless of the relationship—parent, friends of 20+ years, etc.—and I often feel like I’m walking a pretty tight line between thoughtfully discerning what sort of energy I want around me vs. sitting on a high horse. What do you recommend I work on to soften some of that rigidity?

Many thanks for any insight :-)

Hi guys, I’m a bit of a beginner when it comes to reading my chart and what certain houses means in terms of themes that show up in my life. My 7th house ruler is in Cancer, ruled by the moon, and sits in my 8th house of Leo. Does anyone else have this placement or is familiar with it?

For context, themes surrounding the 8th house have repeatedly shown up in my life and I was a bit scared when I saw my 7th house rulership placement. Been through a couple painful/heavy breakups that took a while to bounce back from. My love life, when I actually find it in myself to like someone, has always been intense to say the least.

Thanks in advance

I'm also on the cusp of being ascendant Leo lol! I ask because I would hope that I come across at least a little chill and not too head-strong, though I know I can be.

My friends or relatives will be perfectly normal with me for years. Then out of nowhere I’ll find myself part of a competition I never was even made aware of, or all of a sudden they resent me for something (ie. when I finally got my license so I was able to make going to the gym a priority), or they start becoming jealous and even controlling. With relatives, they can’t stand me but need me to be around. I’m often treated like a possession, people either hold on way too tightly to me, or they attempt to completely discard me. And it always dismantles them when I walk away.