شعري اغلب الوقت كدا و هايش بالمنظر دا ايه الحل ؟
فيه صور قديمة و بالذات زمان مكانش بالمنظر دا
و بنام على ستان مش قطن
بستخدم شامبو الي في الصورة دا و حمام كريم بتاعه
*اول كومنت هو عموماً الو ايفا ارجان
رجالة مشوفتش غير حبة من اول محاضرة و معرفش هو فين دلوقتي فيه امل الم ولا ايه و اعملها ازاي
I was spending time in some Discord servers, and I happened to be in a small one where a girl(she's 16.5 I'm 17 ) had her real picture as her profile photo. I sent her a friend request, normal stuff, and we started talking and got to know each other. Anyway, I found out later that she trolls guys for her TikTok lives and things like that. As time went by, she actually gave me her account to help her troll other guys, but after that, she started trusting me more and gave me her personal Discord account. Eventually, we moved to talking on Instagram and Snapchat.
Right from the beginning, I noticed she would say "I love you" and "I want to marry you," which felt weird and actually made me a bit anxious. She also told me she stopped doing those TikTok lives. Over time, we started doing video calls and voice calls for hours every day—sometimes up to five hours—playing games together, sharing our daily routines, and exchanging romantic words. I was surprised by how fast everything happened, but I thought maybe it was just because we're young (I'm 17 and she's 16 and a half).
With time, she started acting strange, like being overly clingy and constantly saying things like, "I'm scared you'll leave me" and "You're definitely going to stop talking to me." When I confronted her and told her that her behavior was bothering me, she claimed she was just acting and testing me to see if I was the right fit because she liked me. But then she said she felt like we would never actually meet in real life (since I'm on one continent and she's on another). After that, she removed me and ghosted me.
I felt really upset and hurt because I had started to get attached to her and love her. We used to talk for hours, and I truly thought we were compatible. I sent her a message—without compromising my dignity—asking her why she did that, but she just ghosted me.
There are a lot of details that are hard to explain and I'm too lazy to type them out, but I want to know: how can I avoid situations like this in the future? Can e-dating actually work? And how do I get over her? Because honestly, I miss her. We used to talk so much. I was literally trying to become a better person for her, I got attached, I thought we were perfect for each other, and I was even learning her language and culture while trying my best never to upset her.
I've written some regrettable things in my time and i'd like to scrub my Instagram clean. Is there any way that I can delete all of my DMs without just going through one-by-one?
يرجالة فيه مواد مهما بذاكرها زي النحو بحس اني بغرق في التفاصيل دي
غير كدا اني مراكم فشخ و فيه مواد يادوب بحلها بالعافية زي الاحصا و محتاجين مني مجهود و مراكم حصص كتير فشخ و ابتديت أفقد الأمل و بقول اخش اي حاجة وخلاص ، و غير كدا يومي بقا كئيب فشخ بنام الشروق اصحى العصر اقعد اضيع يومي سوشيال و حبة مذاكرة و مبشوفش شارع غير مرة ولا مرتين في الاسبوع دروس و الباقي اونلاين
