u/yellowapplesgreen

Wanting to report friends rape

cw for mentions of sh suicide and rape

my friend (15f), let’s call her Amelia is being raped by her ex/ family friend for the past 4 years or more.

her parents are abusive and dont care. the rapist (her ex/family friend) lets call him jack, does NOT live in the same country as Amelia.

jack and Amelia are immigrants to both separate countries but they see each other very very often since amelia and jack go back to their home country every few months. also jack frequently visits amelia where she lives.

recently I got some pretty disturbing texts from Amelia abt how jack had raped her, Amelia couldnt come into school for a couple days because she said that ‘her legs were physically not able to move’ due to the extent of the rape.

amelias parents could not care less and they’re abusive too.

amelias self harmed + tried to khs in the past and when the school found out her parents were abusive + she was sh’ing, they called her parents. that caused her parents to physically and emotionally beat her even more because their abuse had been reported. also her mom lied to the school and manipulated them into thinking that Amelia’s a liar.

my friend and I are very worried abt Amelia’s health and safety rn. We want to report it to a teacher or counsellor at school, but the repercussions are too bad. Because if we report, then Amelias parents will be even more hard on her, and im talking serious serious abuse.

the school counsellor thinks of Amelia as a liar (because of her mom) and the head of year also has negative thoughts on her.

she doesn’t even know how she’s supposed to report jacks CONSTANT and extreme rape on her since he doesn’t even reside in the country she’s in.

Amelia’s also diagnosed w depression.

amelias self harmed a lot, and while that’s not the biggest issue it still Is one.

just a few hours ago, Amelia told me she was gonna make a case against him, but idk how far that’s gonna go and me and my friend rlly wanna assist her. What should we do

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u/yellowapplesgreen — 1 day ago
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Wanting to report friend’s rape

cw for mentions of sh suicide and rape

my friend (15f), let’s call her Amelia is being raped by her ex/ family friend for the past 4 years or more.

her parents are abusive and dont care. the rapist (her ex/family friend) lets call him jack, does NOT live in the same country as Amelia.

jack and Amelia are immigrants to both separate countries but they see each other very very often since amelia and jack go back to their home country every few months. also jack frequently visits amelia where she lives.

recently I got some pretty disturbing texts from Amelia abt how jack had raped her, Amelia couldnt come into school for a couple days because she said that ‘her legs were physically not able to move’ due to the extent of the rape.

amelias parents could not care less and they’re abusive too.

amelias self harmed + tried to khs in the past and when the school found out her parents were abusive + she was sh’ing, they called her parents. that caused her parents to physically and emotionally beat her even more because their abuse had been reported. also her mom lied to the school and manipulated them into thinking that Amelia’s a liar.

my friend and I are very worried abt Amelia’s health and safety rn. We want to report it to a teacher or counsellor at school, but the repercussions are too bad. Because if we report, then Amelias parents will be even more hard on her, and im talking serious serious abuse.

the school counsellor thinks of Amelia as a liar (because of her mom) and the head of year also has negative thoughts on her.

she doesn’t even know how she’s supposed to report jacks CONSTANT and extreme rape on her since he doesn’t even reside in the country she’s in.

Amelia’s also diagnosed w depression.

amelias self harmed a lot, and while that’s not the biggest issue it still Is one.

just a few hours ago, Amelia told me she was gonna make a case against him, but idk how far that’s gonna go and me and my friend rlly wanna assist her. What should we do

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u/yellowapplesgreen — 1 day ago