u/y2katiee

Not really sure what I CAN do except ignore her?
For context, my brother proposed to his now fiancée over the weekend, she said yes and I congratulated them. That was pretty much it, or so I thought…

Then comes Sunday night, the day after the proposal, my sister (who I have never had a good relationship with) apparently made a petty post online saying how excited she was to finally have a sister and I’m sure there was more to it judging by how upset my mom was, tbh I rather not know the full extent of what was posted. But the knowledge that it happened upset me as well nevertheless…

I get that not every sibling gets along and it happens in life sometimes. I’ve tried mending the relationship with her in the past only for her to remind me why I shouldn’t with her behaviors such as stealing from my home and my friends as well and lying about it when confronted, and spreading false information to other family members that I’m a drug addict when I’ve never been an addict in my life. She even went as far as to call cps on me in the past and told them I was beating her (another lie)

I’ve ran into people who went to school with her who also did not have very good things to say so…anyway the list goes on and on. I have some pretty wild stories about how she’s treated me over the years.

We have been no contact for almost 3 years now so for her to use his engagement as some sort of jab at me is just….wild. I have her blocked across all socials so I have no idea what she posted and I’m not gonna unblock her to see it. This all just validates my feelings towards her even more and I’m happy she’s not in my life anymore.

I just feel so bad she used my brother’s engagement announcement to make some post online about our estranged relationship. Hopefully she doesn’t do anything else to put a damper on things for my brother, as he doesn’t deserve that. I am also engaged and have been for 5 months now so I’m wondering if maybe she’s jealous or upset bc she knows she won’t be invited to my wedding.

Sad all around that things are this way but such as life I guess. I’m happy for my brother regardless of the family drama on our side and I’m not letting this ruin my time or my brothers! Just needed to vent on here lol thanks

For context, my brother proposed to his now fiancée over the weekend, she said yes and I congratulated them. That was pretty much it, or so I thought…

Then comes Sunday night, the day after the proposal, my sister (who I have never had a good relationship with) apparently made a petty post online saying how excited she was to finally have a sister and I’m sure there was more to it judging by how upset my mom was, tbh I rather not know the full extent of what was posted. But the knowledge that it happened upset me as well nevertheless…

I get that not every sibling gets along and it happens in life sometimes. I’ve tried mending the relationship with her in the past only for her to remind me why I shouldn’t with her behaviors such as stealing from my home and my friends as well and lying about it when confronted, and spreading false information to other family members that I’m a drug addict when I’ve never been an addict in my life. She even went as far as to call cps on me in the past and told them I was beating her (another lie)

I’ve ran into people who went to school with her who also did not have very good things to say so…anyway the list goes on and on. I have some pretty wild stories about how she’s treated me over the years.

We have been no contact for almost 3 years now so for her to use his engagement as some sort of jab at me is just….wild. I have her blocked across all socials so I have no idea what she posted and I’m not gonna unblock her to see it. This all just validates my feelings towards her even more and I’m happy she’s not in my life anymore.

I just feel so bad she used my brother’s engagement announcement to make some post online about our estranged relationship. Hopefully she doesn’t do anything else to put a damper on things for my brother, as he doesn’t deserve that. I am also engaged and have been for 5 months now so I’m wondering if maybe she’s jealous or upset bc she knows she won’t be invited to my wedding.

Sad all around that things are this way but such as life I guess. I’m happy for my brother regardless of the family drama on our side and I’m not letting this ruin my time or my brothers! Just needed to vent on here lol thanks