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▲ 19 r/mesaaz

Most of my friends moved out of state, so it’s been kinda lonely this past year. I have plenty guy friends and live with 3 males, so I really need some female energy in my life again.

I love to go out to eat and drink and am looking for adventurous foodie friends! I have a few friends right now who only eat burgers, pizza, chicken tenders and though I love Dave’s Hot Chicken and In n Out, I’m not really into that stuff on a daily basis 😅 let’s go eat pho, sushi, hot pot, seafood boils!! So much good Asian food in Mesa.

I also love being outdoors and am honestly open to doing open anything except clubbing/raving. Love being on the lake paddleboarding, fishing, etc. My boyfriend and I rent a boat at Lake Pleasant every summer as well and always get a little group together for it if that sounds fun for anyone! Need a travel buddy? I’m your girl as well.

Message me your ig handles to contact you on!

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u/vynilla_ — 10 days ago
▲ 102 r/Scottsdale

Most of my girlfriends have moved out of state, so it’s been me, myself and I for almost a year now. I have plenty guy friends and live with 3 males, so I really need some female energy again. It’s been so impossible making female friends because alot of people I’ve met seem to already have a circle that’s closed off. I tried Bumble BFF, but 99% of the women there don’t respond and/or are never willing to meet 😔

I’m a huge foodie and love to go out for a bite and a drink. I love a good game night in hanging out. Also love being out fishing, paddleboarding, etc. my boyfriend and I always rent a boat at Lake Pleasant every summer and get a little group together if that sounds fun to anyone else! If you wanna travel, I’m your girl. I’m a pretty easy going person and am down for almost anything other than raving/clubbing. Anything food related or drinks at a lounge/bar is right up my alley.

Bestie where you attt

Edit: There’s been several other intentions that I’ve received from this post… why guys lol I think my post is clear. I’m not interested in 3 somes, swinging, or anything of the sort.

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u/vynilla_ — 11 days ago
▲ 122 r/whatdoIdo

Picture 1: I’m in a community page on fb. Someone posts needing water, so I commented (top comment) offering to doordash them some.

Picture 2: They message me, and I asked if they needed anything else, and they give me a small list. Ok… kinda weird cause I meant absolute necessities when I offered, but whatever, maybe they’re really in need and I don’t mind giving back to the community.

Picture 3/4: My boyfriend looked up their post history, and it seems they live off of freebies, which to me personally is weird because I understand if you are desperate and truly in need of help, but to be doing it regularly? At this point, I’m like hmm I definitely think some people choose to struggle. Respectfully, no one forced you to have multiple kids, and it definitely wasn’t a good idea to have 2-4 kids if you can’t even afford water. Also, if you’re looking to get turf redone in your yard and are getting your hair done and all this other cosmetic/aesthetic maintenance, you are actually be doing better than me since I don’t even maintenance my nails due to finances. This is where I wondered if I was being too judgemental cause maybe they’re just in a weird spot, but it’s not how I personally would ever live my life while in a pickle.

Picture 5: I asked her to send me a photo of all of the things she requested to make sure I get the right items, and she sends even more things that weren’t on her initial list.

So in the end, I decided to only get her the water, baby pouches, a frozen meal and a homemade chicken noodle soup I’d cooked earlier that day. It put me in an uncomfortable position because again, I have no problem helping someone out, but it got a bit much when things kept piling on and I started thinking she’s not struggling as much as she said because I’m not in a place to purchase someone $100 of groceries either. Also, if I were desperately in need and someone offered a helping hand, I wouldn’t have asked for hot cheetos as part of my list. I also ended up dropping it off because they lived 5 minutes away and their house was bigger than mine lol (it was a rental but still).

What would you guys have done in this situation? Was I being too judgemental in not wanting to help anymore thinking she was taking advantage of the situation?

u/vynilla_ — 12 days ago