u/viviobrio

So I go to a recurring weekend comedy show and had a bit of a surprise experience. There was a Black comedian doing her set and she was bagging on this trio of guys sitting in front of me; she was talking about dating and how she knows that they’re a problem and whatnot.

And then she suddenly points at me and says, “But you, I want you to like me! You just sitting there being a fine ass little stud, lil chocolate thing…”

😳 I ain’t never in my life. My worst fear at a comedy show is getting called out by the comic (especially if I’m solo) but this was def unexpected. I laughed it off but I was surprised and very flattered. I don’t think I’ve ever been so aggressively called out like that but I liked it 🤣

After removing several posts in this sub (and another) and seeing them pop up in *multiple* queer subs, age gap posts can no longer be posted here. There is a recurring pattern with posters: their language, not replying to any responses spamming subs with weird and random age gap posts. So we ain’t doing them here anymore.

Hey Y'all,

So I’ve noticed an uptick in posts and comments that don’t align with the tone and purpose of this sub.

While this is a space for Black lesbians to talk openly, vent, and share experiences, it also needs to remain welcoming and rooted in uplifting, supporting, and loving on our community. Criticisms, debates, venting, etc are fine as long as they stay respectful. That includes being mindful of language (and attitudes) that can reinforce misogynoir, even when the intention is just venting frustration.

Going forward, I’ll be more attentive and will no hesitate to remove content that crosses that line so the space stays supportive and doesn’t turn harmful.

Appreciate y'all.