SORRY SHOULD SPECIFY I MEANT TRIPLES AS IN LOBES
im thinking of getting my double helix pierced on sunday (in 4 days) and then my triples maybe the next week after or whenever i can organise it. basically max within the same month.
bad idea?
18F it's not to say im not attracted TO him but he's not.. the most physically appealing guy.
but he's got the perfect personality; chatty, engaging, down to earth, goes on fun spontaneous side quests with me, overall a great and caring friend and lives down the street. i so want him in my life, and i so want to date him but its like.. when i look too closely.. he's not all that appealing.
what do i do? in my head and to friends, i've already said i love this guy. it was completely by accident but.. its not a lie. im honestly just waiting for him to ask me out on a romantic date than a platonic hangout (and im pretty sure he likes me back too). he'd be an amazing partner and we just get along like best friends. everything is literally PERFECT.
he's met my family, they think he's pretty alright looking. maybe he's just not my physical type or.. just not what i imagined my long term partner to look like.
it also sucks because im contributing to the oxford study with white boys and asian girls so im honestly like... i do want to find myself an asian guy but now i've met someone unlike anyone else before (i know its a dumb reason but i do lowkey wanna keep the asian population going yk LOL)
just confused... do i still go for him? or keep waiting and find someone i find attractive
ive had a keloid scar for about a year and a half now. from august-december 2025 i got steroid treatment after gels and creams didnt help with the significant sharp pain i had been experiencing.
pain left until april
i saw a doctor last week and he recommended i start again (as gel, tape, cream, etc weren't helping).
i got the injections today. he was waaayy better than the person before him. he was actually careful rather than just stabbing me and injecting me anywhere.
with the doctor before him, the steroids were injected very unevenly. the top half was flatter than the bottom and one particular area (now blue) had a white line on it. the skin around it was a light purple and you could see red veins very distinctly (cant believe i paid $500 for that). the bottom is where my pain is coming from because the lady never got to the bottom and was too concerned about my pain and just rushed it. so as it didnt really get a lot of steroids, now im realising why the pain has come back.
i didnt have an opportunity to tell my new doctor this and i couldnt stop him from injecting into the purple area (the white has now faded). i thought he'd had noticed and probably wouldnt have injected if it was important for him not to. but now its literally blue.. and im scared.
is this... okay?
i've tried pinning this maybe 100 times already and every single time there's something wrong with it. I've tried only pinning the back but then that results in some sort of ducktail, I've tried pinning just sides but then it's weird or too tight.
this is the best I've got it now. There is fabric pouring on top of the pins and it looks weird.
Will this be removed when I sew it? If not, how can I fix this?
I can't sew more than an inch above the bottom of the shirt, otherwise it becomes too tight and looks weird around my ribs, so my target is as close as i can get to the bottom
before photo first, my goal second and third and after pinning the fourth photo
i dont have a sewing machine, i do all my stuff by hand btw !
I love the way my head oil smells and I know that you can make a perfume out of oil and premade perfume mix. my hair oil is jojoba based
would this work?
I can't find a perfume like it anywhere