u/tututudu3

All the wrong doings are being corrected. We hardly see any dowry being forced.. chores are managed by both( not always) and people are trying to treat each other equally. But one point remains same.

Why do women always need someone earning equal to or more than what they earn? And a women working in India are happy to marry someone who has settled abroad but dont even bat an eye on someone who is in India if the girl has settled down abroad even if the guy is ready to relocate.

When everywhere people are trying to he equal, why do you guys want to upscale through marriage? Why not think of building a life together?

I'm just too curious to know.. I'm sorry if I've hurt someone's sentiments.. but yeah i want to know this.

Thanks in advance ✌️

How to handle this situation? I have a friend who keeps visiting me often.... it has happened 4 times already. All my friends have settled down with family and I am the one who is unmarried. I am staying alone because i like staying alone undisturbed and following my routine. But since I stay alone, it makes for for people to come uninvited and stay as long as they wish.

Few weeks back he told me he would be coming here for some work and will be visiting me. And me knowing his habbits for stretching for 3 or 4 weeks with no real work at hand, i said politely i would not be there at my place. When he said I could handover over the key to him before i leave so he could stay.. i somehow managed a no.

But now, he has done the same thing again. Problem is not the visit itself, he stays to himself.. but my home is a small one and all my TV and everything are there if he is there,since he doesnt work.. he keeps sleeping till very late in the morning and so.. and all my schedule gets disrupted because i have to make sure i dont make the noises obvious. And since he has occupied fhat space, i will be left with only other small portion of my own home.

How should I handle this situation