I just saw my ex on a dating app after 5 months of nc. Should I make one and hurt him too?
I feel completely lost right now. My ex and I had a devastating breakup five months ago and have been in no contact since. At the time, he blocked me everywhere, told me he hated me, and insisted we weren't meant to be. Even though I begged him for a month to reconsider, he wouldn't budge and told me to move on. He even claimed he wasn't going to look for anyone else because he wasn't ready. Yesterday, I had a gut feeling he was back on the dating app where we first met. I created a fake profile to check, and I found him, he had just joined today. We actually matched, and when I asked what he was looking for, he said he was tired of 'unserious people' wasting his time. I feel so betrayed. It hurts that he views our entire history as a waste of time. I never imagined he’d be looking for someone so soon while I’m still struggling to move on. I’ve considered making a real profile just to show him I’ve moved on too, even though I know I don't want him back after how he’s treated me. Should I make one and show “I’ve moved on”? I kind of hoped he’d reach out by now because he did say he might regret it but now I don’t ever think he will…