u/tattsnfags

thinking of my father, it’s about to be 10 years since he passed. would love to listen to some songs about this and add them to my playlist

Any genre is fine just not into country or metal atm

now before i get started I absolutely have no issue with anyone who identifies as non binary, is trans, or anything gender related this is strictly about how I’ve been perceived as a butch lesbian.

So I’m pretty tall, shaved hair, tattoos, just pretty masculine in appearance, but I feel like my behavior is more on the feminine side I guess? it’s both, some days I feel more masc, I don’t go full femme but I do want to be perceived as a woman, and lately it seems everyone assumes since I am butch I must be trans or nonbinary? (again I have no issue with people who are that, I used to think I was non binary when I was younger, then realized I’m comfortable with my gender) I just don’t like my womanhood being doubted just because I’m masculine as a woman. It feels like there’s been a shift, people cannot comprehend that masculine women exist. Even in relationships, women assume “I’ll be the man” in the relationship which is a whole entire thing but still related.

My point is I don’t know why it’s so hard for people to grasp just because I’m masculine that I must not identify as something other than a woman, I’m just a butch lmao.

It’s been frustrating me honestly, and I already have issues based on how I look cause I live in a very homophobic country, and this just adds on to it.

butches are still women!! I don’t understand why people can’t grasp that truly.

a playlist i’ve had since i was 14, ranges extremely from genre to genre, if you get justin bieber or one direction i apologize in advance