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do you guys have a peculiar phenotype of women you fantasize about? like, wishing you look like a specific phenotype of girl. here’s mine!
▲ 55 r/trueuglywomen

do you guys have a peculiar phenotype of women you fantasize about? like, wishing you look like a specific phenotype of girl. here’s mine!

these girls are so beautiful to me and they usually have kind of deepish voices which adds to their mousy cute features. it’s like idk. it’s perfect.

i literally fantasize looking like this, or some version of it, and posting selfies and tiktoks all day. i kind of feel like so intense about it that it’s almost like a “transness” of some sort. like, if there was a surgery where i could go in and come out looking like that (and sounding like that) i’d get it almost immediately, no matter the cost, and then i’d truly be living life.

but alas, i’m a fat ugly black girl with a gross voice so that obviously won’t be possible. lol

u/strawsanddogs — 1 day ago
▲ 4 r/ForeverAlone

scared to get a partner (if possible)

they’re inherently settling. knowing that there’s always prettier, more fit, more mentally sound, happier women. knowing i’m their last choice.

i probably will never have the guy, the marriage, and the baby but even if i do somehow get a guy, he’s settling. and that hurts me. i would love if i was someones first-choice but i know i’m not.

it’s truely lose-lose when you’re an ugly POS. lol

anyone feel the same?

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u/strawsanddogs — 5 days ago
▲ 4 r/ForeverAloneDating

23F - [F4A] - Looking For Love.. Obviously!

Hello, I’m Norah.

[PLEASE READ ENTIRE POST BEFORE PRIVATE MESSAGING]

I’m a Black girl, around 5’5, overweight, autistic, and living in North Carolina. I’m not conventionally attractive, and I’m not going to pretend I am.

I’ve spent most of my life pretty sheltered, so I’m a NEET with very little real-world experience. I’d like to change that, slowly, with someone who understands where I’m coming from.

Looks and race don’t matter much to me but i’m only open to anyone older than 23.

What does matter is that you’re into similar things. I’ve been really into film, music, and books for all of my life basically because that’s what I had growing up, and I’d love to talk about interesting, offbeat stuff.

You absolutely must love films or read consistently, this is a REQUIREMENT!

My favorites include the film Welcome to the Dollhouse (My fav director is Todd Solondz), the book Blood Meridian, and authors like Bret Easton Ellis and Ottessa Moshfegh.

Distance is important. I’d heavily prefer if you lived somewhere between South Carolina and New Jersey, give or take, close enough that meeting up could actually happen one day. Same time zone just makes sense. (unless you’re a woman)

THAT MEANS NO NON-AMERICANS!
(unless you’re a woman)

I think I have a decent personality once you get to know me, even if I can come off a little quiet or grumpy at first. If you’re someone who actually thinks about the media you consume and wants to share that with another media nerd, I’d love to hear from you. :)

Please OPEN with telling me a bit about yourself; NAME, AGE, LOCATION — what you do for work or with your time, your interests, what you look like, etc. You don’t have to send a photo right away if you’re shy. Just describe what you look like for now. I totally understand because I’m shy about that too.

I’m least likely to not reply to random “hey’s” and “hi’s” or any other one word or two word replies!

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u/strawsanddogs — 5 days ago