u/speroni

I'm boyfailing now. I'm like 9 months on HRT and I can't pass as a cis man. Some people I knew pretransition have started acting transphobic to me despite me not telling them I'm trans and only being in boymode around them.

People I don't know at all sometimes call me "lady" or "ma'am" in boymode.

I'm so confused, my skin is like a little softer and my chest a little bigger but as far as I can tell I look the same?

Like on one level it's scary af, but on another level its super encouraging and validating.

I definitely do not pass as a cis woman, but scary as it is it's amazing that this is working.

Do people usually start boyfailing under a year on hrt? Or am I just lucky for once in this miserable life?

I'm boyfailing now. I'm like 9 months on HRT and I can't pass as a cis man. Some people I knew pretransition have started acting transphobic to me despite me not telling them I'm trans and only being in boymode around them.

People I don't know at all sometimes call me "lady" or "ma'am" in boymode.

I'm so confused, my skin is like a little softer and my chest a little bigger but as far as I can tell I look the same?

Like on one level it's scary af, but on another level its super encouraging and validating.

I definitely do not pass as a cis woman, but scary as it is it's amazing that this is working.

Do people usually start boyfailing under a year on hrt? Or am I just lucky for once in this miserable life?

I'm boyfailing now. I'm like 9 months on HRT and I can't pass as a cis man. Some people I knew pretransition have started acting transphobic to me despite me not telling them I'm trans and only being in boymode around them.

People I don't know at all sometimes call me "lady" or "ma'am" in boymode.

I'm so confused, my skin is like a little softer and my chest a little bigger but as far as I can tell I look the same?

Like on one level it's scary af, but on another level its super encouraging and validating.

I definitely do not pass as a cis woman, but scary as it is it's amazing that this is working.

Do people usually start boyfailing under a year on hrt? Or am I just lucky for once in this miserable life?