u/sassy_soul_04

somewhere btw the feeding schedules, the tantrums and jst tryna keep my 2 year old happy... i completely lost myself without even noticing 😭 even a 10 min shower alone feels like a luxury i have to myself

i luv my son more than anythng in this world bt i also miss myself and i think tht is okay to say out loud 🤍

can we plz normalize taking care of ourselves without the guilt... drop the last thing you did jst for yourself below no matter how small

oky i need the real and og ones not the pinteresty ones or 5 min crafts ones😭 the actual in the trenches hacks tha saved ur sanity on the hardest days

also what are some lil tricks nd shortcuts tht nobody told you about bt completely changed the game for you as a mum 🙏

i didnt knw becoming a mum meant opening myself up to unsolicited advice from literally every single person in my life 😭 family neighbors aunties i havent spoken to in years nd somehow even strangers at the mall all of them have smthng to say nd they say it with such confidence too like you dont even know my baby's name

"you are holding her wrong" "why no socks" "you shouldnt feed tht way" "in my time we did it like this" nd my personal fav the ones who dont even say anythng they just give you the look 😭💀

how do you all deal with this without losing ur mind or being rude cuz i genuinely need tips 🙏

i was so confident before becoming a mum like i had it all figured out in my head 😭

before baby- "my kids will never have screen time"
after baby: puttin on cocomelon for 47th time so tht i can have 1 meal in peace😭

oky ur turn drop urs below cuz ik im not the only one with this situation

okyy so my job has me moving cities every few months nd putting my son in a new school every time jst feels so wrong like how is he supposed to settle in make friends feel safe when we're always on the go..... so i've been thinking abt homeschooling bt honestly i don't even knw where to start especially being in india where it's not tht common

drop everything yk please like wht websites do you use?? wht curriculum works for young kids?? any apps or resources tht actually helped you nd how do you even structure the day while working full time... i'm all ears 💛

Felt my baby move nd it instantly made my whole day better😄
crazy how such a tiny moment can mean sm

asking for a very tired very patient mum who is running out of both

my toddler hears me say no nd looks me dead in the eyes nd does it anyway like the audacity is actually impressive 😭 i have tried evrythng calm voice, firm voice, distraction, redirection none of it is working nd im starting to think im just invisible

is this jst a phase or is there something tht actually worked for you please drop your real tips not just the textbook stuff i need what actually worked irl 😭🤍

Tried givng my baby his first solid food today… it ended up on the floor, walls, and somehow in my hair too. baby seemed proud about this... How did your first feeding go?