She told me she doesn’t feel the same anymore and I’m struggling to move on — how do you actually stop loving someone who didn’t love you back the same way?
I was in a relationship with a girl who told me she loved me. I gave her everything — my time, my money, my full attention. I was loyal and consistent.
But she kept accepting other guys’ follow requests even after I told her I didn’t like it. She was hot and cold with me for months. She would send me love reels but never really commit.
When I asked her directly if she had someone else she said yes. But I think she just used that as an easy exit because I gave her the option.
She blocked me from her personal account and changed her username so I couldn’t find her. Then she told me she hates me, called me selfish and manipulative — after everything I did for her.
This happened before too. She blocked me and came back. Twice.
I know it’s over. I went to the gym at midnight last night because I had nowhere else to put the pain. But I keep checking her profile and I can’t stop thinking about her.
How do I actually move on from someone who never really valued me? And how do I stop being so available next time?