Considering a Move from Lisbon to Spain — Would Love Your Advice
Hey everyone,
I wanted to share my situation and get some honest advice from people living in Spain.
I’m originally from Brazil, and I left my home country back in 2015. Since then, I’ve lived in Sydney (4 years), Berlin (2 years), and for the past 5 years, Lisbon has been my home.
Portugal has been good to me in many ways. I even managed to buy an apartment here — not because the country made it easy, but because I’ve worked hard for over a decade and saved consistently. Professionally, I’m in tech, and I’m stable: good job, two cats, and a comfortable life.
But socially… Portugal has been the hardest place I’ve lived in.
I’ve experienced hostility and discrimination here in a way I never did in Sydney or Berlin. I’ve heard things like “volta para o seu país”, “brasileiro do caralho”, and “os brasileiros só vêm para cá fazer merda.” These generalizations hurt, and they make me feel unwelcome in a place I’ve tried to build a life in.
Sometimes it feels like people think they’re doing me a favor by letting me live here. But the reality is: expats contribute to the economy, and I’m qualified — Portugal is not my only option.
The thing is: every time I visit Spain, I feel genuinely well received. I don’t know if it’s cultural, historical, or just coincidence, but the vibe is completely different. I’ve been thinking more and more about moving to Spain, especially since finding a tech job there shouldn’t be too difficult.
My main hesitation is practical:
I own an apartment in Lisbon, so leaving would mean renting it out and reorganizing my whole life. But emotionally, I’m starting to feel like a change might be necessary.
So I’d love to hear from you all:
- How do Brazilians (or Latin Americans in general) feel living in Spain?
- How is the social environment compared to Portugal?
- Anything I should be aware of before making such a big move?
Thanks in advance for any insights.