u/reef-Diver7817

I was going to ask this on the bumble post from yesterday but then I didn't want to seem I was hijacking her post.

What do you all think of this new feature on Hinge? Where the person chooses the date that is prefilled on the other person's profile.

Personally Hinge is my least favorite dating app in general, which is basically the same as ranking piles of dog crap.

I also think the feature is making it where the men don't have to plan a date or ask.

I want to know a man shows effort and knows I have a life of my own, ask me out in advance.

Which in many ways Hinge has tried to mask the ineptitude men have with dating by not allowing people to have a bio but asking them direct questions in lieu of a bio.

Because when they had bios they put "just ask". Outsourcing labor onto women and not putting in any effort.

"Send us a QR code with treats to try and get a job!!

Also here's a selfie of me!!"

https://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/investigations/san-diego-county-eliminated-911-dispatcher-jobs-despite-falling-short-on-standards/4019727/

From the article:

"Hiring dispatchers is a challenge for the entire industry, and the sheriff’s office is no exception. Since at least 2019, about two dozen or more of its dispatcher positions have been vacant, out of about 125 total."

Why are they lying?!!!

Do they know how many people would take these jobs!

They just won't hire them.

This is why every woman should NOT communicate. Accept men as they are or leave.

If you communicate or ask him to do stuff you are then a nag to him.

And some men will even say you are crazy/manic/bipolar/borderline personality.

We all know it. Please chime in if a man as ever called you "crazy" for wanting something very reasonable.

Read "the yellow wallpaper" or look into Cassandra for more info on men calling women crazy for hundreds of years.

Good songs "Labor" by Paris Paloma or "dog's dinner" by Sofia Isella.

And every story needs a villain. Husband needs the wife to be the villain so he can be the happy, innocent, go with the flow husband and she is the joy kill wife.

I put the lyrics to the song in a comment below, remember these lyrics are EXACTLY how men see you when you ask him to do stuff, they see it as bitching. Just go silent and leave.

As one woman wrote yesterday in a comment: I absolutely refuse to initiate communication about anything he should have already learned.

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Waiting for the day the news is honest about how much the average person is struggling.

Yes if you own your home you don't understand how much the average person is struggling.

I have an old co worker was 61 at the time of this conversation, and purchased her house in 2000 and her mortgage was $300 a month.

When I told her the average rent price in the area she nearly didn't even believe me. Yes some people live in this much of a bubble.

I wanted to post this in r/nottheonion but it didn't allow for videos directly uploaded.

https://youtu.be/xsvMrDldOpQ?si=hupDsz9ETgttmihn

As well, going to add a gripe I have: summer is here in my location, and I really hate men think women exist at the beach or pool for the male gaze.

I do not care if their thoughts are positive or negative, I hate that they think I am existing for them.

As a woman, I can't imagine thinking any man at the beach or pool is there for me to have any judgment on them or that they are there for me to stare at.

Women do not exist for the male gaze.

Edit to add,

the link clip title is:

The Patriarchy's Secret Weakness | Why Withdrawal Works

It is on YouTube.