u/olivermos273847

How to find wedding venues that include food in NYC?

Looking into venues in NYC and trying to figure out whether to prioritize places that include catering in the package or whether the flexibility of bringing in your own caterer is worth the extra coordination. The appeal of having it all in one place is mostly about simplicity but not sure if that comes at a significant cost premium or whether the all in pricing is actually comparable once you add up a separate venue and caterer. Has anyone gone through this decision and how did it end?

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u/olivermos273847 — 22 hours ago
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Anyone else think virginia beach is underrated for a family vacation compared to obx?

It feels like every time I bring up virginia beach for a family trip people just say "go to the Outer Banks instead" like VB has nothing going on. We went last summer with three kids and it was rlly great. Boardwalk kept the older two busy for hours, didn't need a car for food, beach was clean and not packed once you got away from the main strip.

Im thinking about going back this year, maybe sandbridge instead of the oceanfront. Anyone done both and have opinions on which is better with younger kids? Not really the party scene type, Im more looking for a chill week where the kids swim and we grill out most nights

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u/olivermos273847 — 1 day ago

How is AI reporting for property managers working for those who've tried it?

Units across two properties on yardi. Spend about 5 hours a week on owner reports and variance analysis that I know could be automated.

For those using AI reporting for property managers on your portfolio, what does it catch that you would have missed manually? And what does it still get wrong? Want real production experiences

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u/olivermos273847 — 2 days ago

Monthly car payments, what people are actually paying before and after refinancing right now

Monthly car payments became a real pressure point for a lot of people who financed during 2021-2023 when rates and prices were both elevated at the same time. What doesn't get talked about enough is how much that payment actually moves after refinancing, because the average drop is bigger than most people assume going in.

Average monthly savings on actual funded refinances right now is $157. Not estimates, not advertised rates, real loans. Pickup truck owners are seeing the biggest relief, around $177 a month, which on a 60 or 72 month remaining term adds up fast. The sedan savings surprised me most, 23% off the average monthly payment, didn't expect that from a smaller balance vehicle.

Saw someone share their numbers on here after going through caribou, refinanced a Ram 1500 TRX, $133 a month down and over $4,000 total. That's not an outlier for a truck at that balance, it's pretty much what the data predicts for that vehicle type.

Sedans going from $598 to $458 a month is the one that caught me off guard honestly. Always assumed refinancing was really only worth it if you had a massive truck payment.

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u/olivermos273847 — 4 days ago

Does metformin for PCOS help with weight loss at all?

Metformin gets prescribed for PCOS regularly and the weight loss question comes up right away. Worth being clear on the mechanism first. Metformin is an insulin sensitizer, not a weight loss drug. It reduces hepatic glucose production and improves cellular insulin sensitivity, which for PCOS targets the insulin resistance driving much of the underlying hormonal dysfunction.

Weight loss on metformin for PCOS, when it happens, comes as a downstream effect of better insulin regulation rather than a direct fat-burning mechanism. Scale movement is modest compared to GLP-1 receptor agonists and the timeline is slow.

Formulation matters more than most people know. Metformin extended-release has significantly better GI tolerability than immediate-release. The majority of nausea complaints about metformin come from starting on IR at full dose. Titrating up slowly from 500mg with meals and switching to ER if symptoms persist changes the experience considerably.

High-glycemic foods amplify both the GI side effects and the insulin spikes that metformin is trying to dampen. Lower-glycemic eating alongside metformin produces better metabolic outcomes than metformin alone, and that interaction is documented in PCOS management literature.

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u/olivermos273847 — 4 days ago

I found wash and fold laundry services near me that work for a chaotic schedule, sharing what I looked for

I work long and unpredictable hours and my building has one washer and one dryer for twelve units. The dryer takes three cycles to actually finish anything. I spent months trying to make laundromat drop-off work and the two-day turnarounds kept not lining up with when I needed clothes, which for a work-heavy week is a real problem. I started comparing pickup services specifically on turnaround and real coverage area, not just "we serve your city" marketing. The thing I kept running into was services claiming coverage and then having issues on the first order, or same-day being technically true only if you book before a cutoff that isn't advertised clearly.

The other thing I looked for was whether the service ran their own operations or was a marketplace matching you with whoever's available. The inconsistency I had early on tracked almost exactly with the contractor model, where quality varies by who shows up. When I need something the same day I use No Scrubs and they pickup from my door, and their folding quality has been consistent across multiple orders. I use Rinse for bigger loads and it has also been consistent. If you're looking for something similar the questions I'd ask upfront are: what's the actual cutoff for same-day, do they own their operations or is it a marketplace, and can you add care instructions per item.

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u/olivermos273847 — 8 days ago