u/obviouswreck

Not only did it feel like a weird side plot for a sitcom about elementary/middle school teachers, but it was also just completely out of character for Janine (Mort I could understand). With so much of our current media borderline glamorizing the lewd underbelly of the gig economy (see Euphoria), I didn’t think Abbott Elementary would fall into the same. The worst part was that I was waiting on some clever commentary or a lesson at the end of the episode, but nothing. Even hearing Gregory later refer to Janine as a “cam girl” made me uncomfortable. It just didn’t feel fitting to the show, it completely took me out of the sentimental aspect of the episode.

Edit: Appreciate hearing different perspectives, but at the same time I’m being accused of “lacking media literacy” and being too sensitive. I’m ultimately just sharing my opinion same as you all 🤷🏽‍♀️. But a few notes:

-Note the word “borderline” in my critique of OF being glamorized in our current media. This is a great article that discusses this same topic: https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20260429-the-tv-shows-grappling-with-the-onlyfans-age my comment was just to say, “damn the dramas I’m watching are doing it, now the sitcoms I watch are talking about it too?!”
- Also yes the very obvious point of this episodes subplot was: desperate times call for desperate measures. It just doesn’t feel like it was thoughtfully executed to me.
- ^ with that, most of you seemed to have enjoyed it bc of its absurdity/humor, so it’s just not my cup of tea, but I can respect that its others.

u/obviouswreck — 7 days ago

I have a post with 650 views but 200 accounts reached ??? I just don’t see how that’s remotely possible, unless I’m misunderstanding how these metrics are calculated?

Honestly more curious about how this works than anything!

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u/obviouswreck — 11 days ago
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I feel so defeated. I’m in this endless loop in my head where I do something (forget, put off, misread) and it causes real consequences in my life that then by proxy cause problems for those around me. On one hand I feel so helpless to these actions, it feels like sometimes for the life of me I just CANT do what I need to do. On the other hand, it’s simply not an excuse and I understand that I need to be accountable for my own symptoms.

I guess I just don’t understand where to place my frustrations other than on myself. It feels like I have a disorder that just actively inconveniences myself and those around me. Like my brain is working against me and there’s nothing I can do about it other than follow behind it and try and put out the fires it causes. Or I guess it’s not “it”, it’s me —it’s fires that I cause. I know I can’t use my ADHD as an excuse or try and separate myself from it but it feels so draining and unfair to manage.

I also can’t get past the self-loathing. In my head, people in my life have a right to be frustrated with me and my actions. Anytime I inconvenience someone, I’ve already thought about it for 10x longer and have already been 100x meaner to myself about it in my head. I do apologize and right wrongs and take accountability but at the end of the day I feel like I’m the inconvenience.

All to say I would appreciate a change of perspective.

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u/obviouswreck — 15 days ago

Hi there! I was hired somewhat recently for an entry-level position and was excitingly given a project to revamp our onboarding materials. This is a bit out of my scope, but because I am the person who most recently went through onboarding, it made sense as training is fresher in my mind. As of right now our training is mostly just a master google doc and a lot of 1:1’s with different team members. I definitely know where improvements need to be made but I wanted to ask this sub if they had any suggestions on platforms or resources that would be helpful as I take on this project. Also, if the context is helpful, we work on Salesforce and Zendesk —- Thank you!! (apologies if this is not the right sub to ask)

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u/obviouswreck — 16 days ago