u/northernlight09

Looking for female solo traveller in May in Dharamkot

Hi , I am 28F, looking to book a home stay in dharamkot for whole month in May. It is a nice and cozy stay with home meals available.If anyone is travelling and open to share room then please reach out

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u/northernlight09 — 12 hours ago
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How to avoid the shame of being tagged as a divorcee

When I fill a form, there is this third option of divorced and it hurts everytime I see that. I am ashamed of how people will judge me. If I meet a new person in any social or professional setting I want to hide the fact that I was ever married.

Can you help me overcome this feeling and be okay with it

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u/northernlight09 — 19 hours ago

How do I shake off the feeling of revenge and that’s it’s my loss

I am leaving the city in 2 days I have stayed for last 5 years(even before my marriage) because I can’t take it anymore. I have resigned from my job, planning to travel and find myself. I got a notification today for the car that is in my name is currently in possession of my soon to be ex husband. I was trying to make peace with the fact that I should not focus on him and focus on my healing until today. But now I can’t stop thinking about how he did not lose anything. His job, house,car everything is same. He don’t have any discomfort in his life. His family is staying with him whom he prays and is the reason for my divorce. He is literally living his happily ever after and here I am left feeling discarded, no sense of self worth. My life is destroyed. I still can’t hate him after all he has done to me but this just feels unfair and makes me sick to my stomach. I don’t want to feel any anger or revenge or focus on him. I know he is happy and that bothers me. It’s like I never mattered. I feel like he was trapped with me and feeling relief. I know I have made a lot of mistakes but I was willing to make it work. My intention was never wrong and he never understood me. He broke my trust for his family, leaked my secrets in public but stupid me still can’t hate him because a part of me feels like I am responsible for pushing him away. Please help me. I am so scared to start a new life. I don’t know where to start and I can’t help feeling sad about the fact that he is happy without me.

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u/northernlight09 — 1 day ago