u/neel-watv

Do people actually read the full post before sending a message, or do they simply read the headline and proceed with admirable confidence?

PLEASE NOTE: I AM A "M" WHICH MEANS MALE.

Because my current theory is that many people saw “30 year-old CMO looking for a meaningful relationship”…and thought "Right then, that seems like sufficient information.

Strong impressions? Absolutely.

Excellent engagement? Without question.

Qualified leads? Still being assessed.

But on a more serious note, is it fair to those who are genuinely looking for something meaningful and sincere if messages are sent without actually reading what the other person has taken the time to write?

So I’m curious..

When you message someone after reading a post like that, do you:

A) Read the whole thing properly?

B) Skim the key points?

C) Read the title and let fate take the wheel?

No judgement. (Well, perhaps a tiny bit.)

I’m genuinely interested to know whether people connect with the substance of a post, or whether the headline does all the heavy lifting.

Age: 30

Location: Mumbai (emotionally on Carter Road at sunset)

Profession: Chief Marketing Officer

Religion: Hindu

Diet: Non Vegetarian

Accent: London raised, now confusing people with a British "yaar"

**About Me**

I was raised in London, moved to Mumbai, and somehow turned my life into a crossover between Tamasha and a startup pitch deck. By day, I convince people to buy things they didn’t know they needed. By night, I’m dancing, singing, reading books that make me question my life choices, and planning trips to countries I can’t pronounce properly. (24+ and counting.)

I have a high EQ, **which means:**

\- I can communicate.

\- I know when you’re upset even when you say “I’m fine.”

\- I’ll remember the tiny details you casually mentioned three weeks ago.

\- I’ll still ask what you want to eat even after suggesting 17 options.

\- I cook, clean, do laundry, and can survive independently. In short, I’m looking for a partner, not a replacement mother, therapist, or household staff.

**What I’m Looking For**

A woman who:

\- Communicates instead of sending “k.”

\- Enjoys life and doesn’t treat happiness like a suspicious activity.

\- Loves adventure, whether it’s spontaneous road trips or trying a restaurant with a 2.9-star rating because “the vibe looks good.”

\- Is emotionally available and does not **GHOST**.

\- Can laugh at herself and at my terrible but well-timed jokes.

**What You Get**

\- Golden retriever energy with CEO-level organization.

\- Random flowers for no reason.

\- Deep conversations at 2 AM.

\- Long drives with elite playlists.

\- A personal hype man.

\- Someone who will clap the loudest when you win.

**Red Flags (Green Flags in Disguise)**

\- Will overanalyze movie plots and text messages.

\- Turns every outing into a cinematic experience.

\- Believes communication solves 90% of problems and food solves the remaining 10%.

\- May look at you like you’re the best thing that ever happened to Mumbai.

**Final Pitch**

\- If you want **chaos, toxicity, and mixed signals**, there are **plenty** of **options**.

\- If you want a man who **communicates, shows up, cooks, plans dates, remembers the details, and makes life feel like a beautifully** written film with excellent background music, you know where to DM.

Age: 30

Location: Mumbai (emotionally on Carter Road at sunset)

Profession: Chief Marketing Officer

Religion: Hindu

Diet: Non Vegetarian

Accent: London raised, now confusing people with a British "yaar"

About Me

I was raised in London, moved to Mumbai, and somehow turned my life into a crossover between Tamasha and a startup pitch deck. By day, I convince people to buy things they didn’t know they needed. By night, I’m dancing, singing, reading books that make me question my life choices, and planning trips to countries I can’t pronounce properly. (24+ and counting.)

I have a high EQ, which means:

- I can communicate.

- I know when you’re upset even when you say “I’m fine.”

- I’ll remember the tiny details you casually mentioned three weeks ago.

- I’ll still ask what you want to eat even after suggesting 17 options.

- I cook, clean, do laundry, and can survive independently. In short, I’m looking for a partner, not a replacement mother, therapist, or household staff.

What I’m Looking For

A woman who:

- Communicates instead of sending “k.”

- Enjoys life and doesn’t treat happiness like a suspicious activity.

- Loves adventure, whether it’s spontaneous road trips or trying a restaurant with a 2.9-star rating because “the vibe looks good.”

- Is emotionally available and does not GHOST.

- Can laugh at herself and at my terrible but well-timed jokes.

What You Get

- Golden retriever energy with CEO-level organization.

- Random flowers for no reason.

- Deep conversations at 2 AM.

- Long drives with elite playlists.

- A personal hype man.

- Someone who will clap the loudest when you win.

Red Flags (Green Flags in Disguise)

- Will overanalyze movie plots and text messages.

- Turns every outing into a cinematic experience.

- Believes communication solves 90% of problems and food solves the remaining 10%.

- May look at you like you’re the best thing that ever happened to Mumbai.

Final Pitch

- If you want chaos, toxicity, and mixed signals, there are plenty of options.

- If you want a man who communicates, shows up, cooks, plans dates, remembers the details, and makes life feel like a beautifully written film with excellent background music, you know where to DM.

Age: 30

Sex: Male

Profession: Chief Marketing Officer

Religion: Hinduism

About me:

Living the Tamasha life in the busiest city, Mumbai.

I'm someone with a high EQ, I love to dance and sing. I'm highly into books that inspire, i travel a lot (24+ countries). Although I was raised in London, i moved to India a year ago for a company project. I am a non vegetarian.

What I am looking for:

- Someone who communicates

- Someone who enjoys life

- Someone who loves adventure

- Someone who is ready for spontaneous plans

I ask for the bare minimum, even though it's too much in today's generation.

Note: I can cook, and take care of daily stuff, I'm looking for a partner not a maid or a mom figure so it doesn't matter to me if u can cook or not.