r/reddmatch

Disclaimer: If you’re asexual, not very romantic or high libido and wild, this post is not for you.

About me:

5’9” and 63 kgs, very fit and athletic, love adventure and nature and I’m very clean and hygienic

I like to cook, clean, travel, drive, do all the work around the house and treat my partner like a goddess

I work in AI and have a remote job so I can travel with you and move anywhere to live together

I’m left leaning, feminist, open minded, respectful

DON’T WANT KIDS OF MY OWN. Willing to adopt

About you:

Take care of basic fitness and hygiene

Either work or stay at home. I do not expect you to provide as I can get enough for both of us

Open minded, decent and adventurous

Between 23 and 36

Be willing to meet for dates and love together once we’re comfortable and compatible

Has kids or willing to adopt

DM me if you have any questions but if our values and goals align. Please be willing to exchange pics because mutual attraction is important.

First of all, sorry but not sorry to say that this movie is not a Dharma Productions film. No Karan Johar theatrics here, haha.

So here's the deal. I'm looking for a male lead, with the following criterias, to co-star in the Movie of Life with me. Details of the female lead (me, myself, and I) are also provided below. Applicants are welcome to audtion via DMs, post which screen-tests and other rounds of in-depth screening will follow! 😂

Basics of Female Lead (might as well call her the heroine? Too cheesy, actually, lol)

1. 28F

2. Currently based out of Delhi NCR, works remotely so open to relocation within India and APAC

3. Well educated, qualified, and comes from a family of well educated corporates from Tier 1 institues

4. Has a pet dog (!!) who is a guaranteed heart (and food) stealer

5. Bengali Brahmin. Hindu.

6. Respectful, trustworthy, empathetic and fun-loving. Takes serious things seriously and the rest lightly

7. Fair (literally and metaphorically), kind, and intelligent.

8. Non-vegetarian

9. Contrary to popular belief, does NOT do black magic or anything shady (get over that belief, most Bengalis don't do this stuff)

10. Progressive, modern, creative and imaginative

11. Loves reading, board games, movies (including the Dharma nonsense, sadly), and driving.

Male Co-Lead Eligibility Criterias:

1. Must be a working professional, earning well enough to be able to independently manage finances and not feel threatened by a woman who earns

2. Preffered but not mandatory fields: law, medicine, finance, software

3. Must be okay with dogs. Non negotiable. The dog runs the house, and getting along well with him is of utmost importance. 😂

4. Must be growth-oriented, communicative, respectful, smart, and honest.

5. Clear communication, loyalty, and kindness are a must as well.

6. Caste no bar although family prefers Brahmins

7. Someone who gets along well with family and can get along well with mine, but also values independence would be highly appreciated.

8. Between 28-33 years of age

9. Must come from a progressive family who values education, financial and professional independence, and preferrably former/current professionals themselves.

Oh and a BANGER soundtrack is a guarantee! ELITE music tastes. :)

P.S - only audition if you can commit fully to the role. Provided you clear auditions, it will be a lifelong role.

The casting call is now * drumroll please * open. Best of luck!

I am a 34M Divorced.

Hindu Brahman from a middle class family residing in Mumbai.

I work in IT consulting remotely and travel often.

I am religions and have a vegetarian diet.

I like working out, reading books, gardening and fixing things around the house 🫡

I am looking for a partner of +-5 years from similar background of age, region, occupation, interests or family background.

Looking for someone who more or less has the same requirements and even if not exactly but is willing to tell me what/where can we adjust to find a best solution.

You may or may-not have these exact same preferences and that’s totally acceptable. There is a very large area of adjustments and compromises so.

There are more items that can’t be listed in one post likes,dislikes etc so if you feel we could be a good match.

Please do DM.

Hey Reddmatch! Taking matters into my own hands after the arranged marriage circuit gave me more stories than matches.

Who am I?

Finance professional, 29M, Christian (Protestant), based in North Karnataka. 6 feet tall, built solid — I gym regularly and swim, so yes, broad shoulders included.

Financially sorted, family is too (we're in financial consultancy). We own our home, our vehicles.

I'm a reserved guy — I don't open up to everyone, but when I do, you'll find me belting out Bollywood item songs at full volume with zero shame. So there's layers.

What I'm looking for:

A woman between 24–28, around 5'6" or taller (we'd just look really odd together otherwise, no offence to shorter girls), from a decent, well-grounded family. Caste and religion are genuinely no barrier — if you practice your faith, I'll practice mine, and we'll figure the rest out together. A few things that really matter to me:

Leadership energy — someone who owns a room, has opinions, takes initiative

Fun and not boring — life's too short for dull dinner conversations

Dresses well — not flashy, just appropriate to the occasion. Honestly a rare and underrated quality.

Communicates well — this one's big for me since I'm still learning what I need and what you might need. (Genuine question I'll ask early on: what's your love language? I'm new to this and want to actually get it right.)

Financially grounded family — Not talking dowry or property, not even close. It's just that there's something about growing up with financial security that shapes a person differently. The confidence, the lack of desperation in decisions, the way you carry yourself — you can't fake that. It's a vibe, and I value it.

Past relationships — ideally none or minimal (up to 2). Not judging, just a personal preference.

Logistics:

Post-marriage I'll be staying with my parents — but they're genuinely chill people, so that's more of a feature than a fine print. I'm looking to settle within the year, with a Nov–Dec 2026 wedding being the sweet spot. Summer weddings are a hard no from me.

A small note of honesty: I've met 3 people through AM. One wasn't planning to stay in India. One wanted daily video calls on Day 1 (I genuinely didn't know that was a thing — I panicked, Hadnt done that before, Learnt from friends later that some girls have this love language). One didn't want North Karnataka.

So here I am, writing a Reddit post like a self-aware adult. If you think we might click — or if you know someone who fits — drop a comment or DM. Specifics shared as things move along. 😊

I’m 37, 5’8”, into organic farming, and building something meaningful with my land. Farming is my primary work, and I’m steadily developing the space over the next few years — planning a small farm-to-table setup, treehouse stays, and eventually an educational space focused on sustainable living.

The farm is in a well-connected Tier-2 city, so it’s not cut off from the world — you get the calm of nature and the convenience of access. The land is self-sufficient, and the lifestyle is simple, healthy, and intentional.

About me:

Grounded, practical, and focused

Not bald (since apparently that matters here 😄)

Have spent years preparing for career goals — still pushing forward with clarity

Value consistency over hype

What I’m looking for: Someone calm, emotionally stable, and open to growing together. You don’t have to already live this lifestyle, but you should be genuinely interested in it — not just romantically, but practically.

This isn’t about escaping life — it’s about building one, patiently and consciously.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out. We can take it from there.

26 M | Bangalore | Chennai

Personal Details:

Looking for a serious relationship that eventually leads to marriage. Kindly refrain from reaching out if you’re not looking for something long-term and meaningful.

Religion: Hindu

Caste (if applicable): Brahmin (only if it matters to you)

Sub-caste: NA

Marital Status: Single / Never Married

Living with Parents: No

Native Place: Chennai

Location:

Region: South India

Mother Tongue: Telugu - But more fluent in tamil and can speak hindi also understand kannada and Malayalam

Country: India

Plan to settle abroad: If the opportunity presents itself i guess

Currently based in Bangalore for work, but Chennai will always feel like home. And have plans to be in Bangalore for foreseeable future

Education and Profession:

Education Level: post graduate

Occupation: AI Engineer

I currently work as an AI Engineer and genuinely enjoy what I do. I also recently started building a startup on the side with a close friend, and the long-term goal is to take that full-time once it becomes sustainable and starts generating revenue.

Annual Income: Around 18 LPA

Lifestyle Preferences:

Diet: Non-Vegetarian (yes, even as a Brahmin :P)

Alcohol: social drinker

Smoking: trying to quit

Family Details:

Parents are based in Chennai and currently visit Bangalore once every couple of months. After marriage, I’d prefer living separately initially, and over time, depending on responsibilities and family needs, I’d be open to transitioning into a joint family setup.

Also, my parents have started looking for prospective AM matches and are open to me finding my own partner if that’s what I want.

Partner Preferences:

Desired Religion: nothing as such. As long as you value my beliefs

Desired Caste (if applicable): Open-minded

Desired Language: Tamil / Telugu preferred, but open if we connect well

Location Preferences: Bangalore

Diet Preferences: Open

Education Level: Educated, at least an undergrad

Occupation: Open, as long as you’re passionate about what you do - just to a point where you’re not dependent on anyone for your needs

Living with Parents: Prefer living separately initially

Marital Status: Never Married

Someone emotionally mature, kind, easy to talk to, and genuinely looking for a long-term relationship. Bonus points if you enjoy spontaneous drives, late-night food runs, football banter, anime discussions, or can tolerate Manchester United heartbreak.

Hey! Here’s a quick intro:

Trying my luck here because meeting people organically is hard.

I’m 26, based in Bangalore, working as an AI Engineer — and yes, I actually enjoy what I do.

I’m outgoing, easy to talk to, and pretty good at keeping conversations alive—whether we’re discussing deep life stuff or complete nonsense.

Big football fan (Manchester United — loyal through the pain), casual gamer who’s terrible at it, and a certified binge-watcher + anime fan. I even have an anime-themed tattoo, so that should tell you enough.

Always up for watching a series together, rewatching comfort shows, or just half-watching while talking about life.

I’m someone who notices small things, likes surprising people, and genuinely enjoys listening. I get excited over little things and will probably send you random thoughts throughout the day.

Politically left-leaning and open to respectful conversations.

Physically: 5’7”, normal build.

Emotionally: available, honest, and someone who values friendships and emotional connection a lot.

I get along well with people and would want to fit into your world as much as you fit into mine.

I’m looking for someone to hang out with, talk to, go on actual drives (yes, real drives), grab food at odd hours, build something meaningful, and hopefully see it turn into marriage eventually.

Chemistry matters, emotional compatibility matters more.

I believe a strong relationship should feel like friendship first—comfort, trust, laughter, and the ability to be fully yourself without judgment.

Feel free to ignore if you:

Are not looking for a relationship that’s going to eventually turn into to marriage

Have extreme conservative restrictions

Are strongly judgmental about caste/class/creed

Don’t believe in emotional availability or honest communication

Contact Information:

Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit initially an we can transition to other messaging apps eventually after initial chats

Hi everyone,

I’m a 34-year-old man, divorced, and now at a stage where I’m looking to rebuild my personal life with the right person. I believe in honesty, mutual respect, and growing together through all phases of life.

I come from a business background and am actively involved in my own work. Because of that, I feel I’d connect better with someone who understands the mindset, challenges, and responsibilities that come with business life.

I’m open to starting as friends and seeing where things naturally go, with the intention of finding a meaningful, long-term relationship that could lead to marriage.

About me:

•	34, divorced

•	Business background

•	Family-oriented, practical, and straightforward

•	Value loyalty, trust, and emotional maturity

Looking for:

•	Someone from a business or entrepreneurial background

•	Understanding, supportive, and grounded

•	Open to friendship first, with long-term intentions

If this resonates with you, feel free to message. Let’s keep it genuine and respectful.

Alright, so here’s the “about me” section—except I’m trying to make it less like a boring biodata and more like an actual human introduction. I’m 29, based in Delhi NCR, and I work in finance. Yes, the stereotype is true: I can overthink decisions, calculate risks, and sometimes mentally estimate how much a trip costs before even booking it. But I promise I’m not the kind of person who brings spreadsheets into relationships (unless you ask nicely). I’ve completed my post graduation in Finance and I’m fairly serious about my career, but not the kind of person who lets work become my entire personality. I like balance—ambition with calmness, effort with humour, and seriousness with the ability to laugh at life when it gets ridiculous.

Personality-wise, I’m someone who’s calm, patient, and generally easy to talk to. I joke around a lot, but I also know when to switch gears and be practical. I’m not the loudest guy in the room, but I’m definitely the one who observes everything and then drops a one-liner at the perfect moment. If you’re the type who enjoys good banter, playful teasing, and conversations that go from “what are you watching these days?” to “what do you think the future looks like?”—we’ll probably get along well. I value emotional stability and mental maturity, so I’m not into unnecessary drama, ego battles, or random silent treatments. I’m very straightforward in communication. If something is good, I’ll say it. If something bothers me, I’ll address it respectfully instead of turning it into a full season of confusion.

Lifestyle details (because Reddit loves clarity): I’m non-vegetarian, I don’t smoke, and I do drink socially. I enjoy parties once in a while—not as a personality trait, but as an occasional break from routine. I’m not the “every weekend blackout” guy, but I’m also not someone who refuses a good night out with the right people. I enjoy experiences, good food, good places, and good company. I can do a chill evening with a book just as easily as I can do a lively night out. Basically, I’m flexible as long as it’s enjoyable and makes sense. I believe life is meant to be lived properly—not rushed, not wasted, and definitely not spent constantly trying to impress people.

Now, coming to my interests: I’m into football and F1, which means I have experienced joy, heartbreak, hope, and disappointment—sometimes all in the same weekend. Football is a proper passion, and F1 is that obsession I pretend is “just a sport” while I secretly track strategies, drivers, teams, and random stats like it’s a life skill. I also enjoy reading books—depending on the mood, but I like anything that keeps me hooked and makes me think. Anime is another thing I genuinely enjoy, and no, I’m not one of those people who thinks it’s “just cartoons.” If you get it, you get it. If you don’t, I can still explain it with full confidence like I’m defending a thesis. Travelling is a big interest too. I like exploring places, trying local food, walking around without a plan sometimes, and coming back with stories that feel better than any Instagram post. I’m not obsessed with posting everything online; I’d rather experience it properly.

Family background: I’m Brahmin. I’m mentioning it because it’s relevant for many people here, but personally, I’m more focused on mindset and compatibility than labels. I believe culture matters, values matter, but at the end of the day, the person matters more. I respect family and relationships, and I’m someone who believes in building something stable, meaningful, and long-term—without making it feel like a burden.

What am I looking for here? Something genuine. I’m not here for timepass, casual confusion, or “let’s see where it goes” with zero effort. I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, has a decent sense of self, and is clear about what she wants. Someone who can communicate properly, handle disagreements like an adult, and understands that a good relationship is built through consistency—not just vibes. Attraction matters, yes, but so does respect, effort, loyalty, and emotional compatibility. I’m not expecting perfection, but I do expect sincerity. I appreciate women who have their own personality, their own ambitions, and their own opinions. If you can hold a conversation, have a sense of humour, and bring positive energy into a relationship, that’s already a great start.

Now, I’ll be honest about my non-negotiable because it saves everyone time: wrong attitude and being overly casual about everything. I don’t mean “casual” as in chill or relaxed—being relaxed is great. I mean casual as in careless. The kind of behaviour where nothing is taken seriously, communication is inconsistent, and effort is optional. That doesn’t work for me. I’m someone who believes that if you’re investing your time in a person, you should do it properly. If you’re interested, show it. If you’re not, say it. I respect clarity. What I don’t respect is half-hearted behaviour, mixed signals, and unnecessary attitude. I’m not here to chase someone who enjoys being chased.

In return, I offer stability, loyalty, effort, and a partner who will genuinely show up. I’m not perfect, but I’m consistent. I’m the kind of person who will remember small details, check in on you, support your goals, and be present. I value trust a lot, and once I commit, I commit properly. I’m also someone who believes relationships should be fun. It shouldn’t feel like a job interview every day. There should be laughter, teasing, inside jokes, shared interests, and that comfort where even silence feels good. If we connect, I’ll probably be the guy who sends you memes at random hours, discusses F1 race strategy like it’s world politics, and still makes sure you’re doing okay mentally.

If you’ve read this far, congratulations—you have more patience than most people scrolling Reddit at 2 AM. If you feel like our vibe matches and you’re someone who’s genuinely looking for something meaningful, feel free to DM. Introduce yourself properly—basic details and what you’re looking for—so we can skip the awkward “hi” phase and actually talk like normal adults.

Let’s see if Reddit can do something right 😄

Hello! Seeking a lifelong relationship. Let me know if anything in this post interests you

Personal Details:

• Height: 6' 1"
• Build: Slim
• Religion: Hindu
• Marital Status: Never married
• Living with Parents: Yes, but will live away from parents after marriage. Parents are financially independent

Location:

• Region: South India
• Mother Tongue: Tamil
• Country: India
• Plans to Settle Abroad: Yes if given the right opportunity

Education and Profession:

• Education: Undergraduate, BTech
• Occupation: Engineer
• Diet: Non-Vegetarian

Partner Preferences:

• Desired Religion: Hindu
• Desired Mother Tongue: No preference
• Desired Caste: No preference
• Location Preference: No preference
• Diet Preference: Non-Vegetarian
• Education Level: Educated
• Occupation: No preference
• Desired Earnings: > Any
• Living with Parents: No issue, but would prefer living separately after marriage.
• Marital Status: Never married
• Age Pref: No preference
• Want Kids After Marriage: unsure

Additional Information:

• Hobbies/Interests: Travelling within the city/Long road trips, Hill Stations

Contact Information:

• Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit

31, based in Gurgaon

• Working in tech (data/problem-solving role)

• CTC: 45–48 LPA

• Height: 6 ft

• Lifestyle: into health & fitness, vegetarian but flexible (have tried non-veg while travelling), drink occasionally

• Personality: relaxed, grounded, easygoing — I like keeping things simple and balanced

• Interests: travelling, exploring new places, long drives (especially with good music), and reading — usually around self-growth or understanding people

• I’ve done a bit of travelling recently — solo trip to Thailand, and also been to Germany and Hong Kong. Experiencing different cultures has made me more open-minded and changed how I look at life and people.

• I also like visiting calm places — was in Alwar recently — I appreciate peaceful environments and tend to pick up on people’s energy and vibe quite easily

• I enjoy both sides — I can be chill and low-key, but I also like meaningful conversations and understanding how people think

• Looking for: something simple and genuine — a partner who also feels like a friend, where things are easy, natural, and we grow together

• Caste: Brahmin, but open to any general caste

I am looking for serious dating which would lead to marriage. I am an Indian Diplomat and cleared civil services in 2024. I look for a woman who is comfortable in living outside for the better part of our life and is open to experiencing new and diverse cultures with me.

I don’t have much experience with past relationships as better part of my 20s went in preparing for CSE. I am not very shallow on physical attributes. I just want a mature optimist as my partner with am empathetic heart. I am a Brahmin (Bharadwaj Gotra). However your caste doesn’t matter to me. My parents are very open minded. I am an only child.

Hobbies - Video Games, Travel, Cooking, Exploring restaurants, Enjoy comedy & gigs.

Schooling - The Doon School & DPS RKP

Bachelors - NLSIU Bangalore

I hope to find what I am looking for!

Here’s an expanded version closer to ~800 characters, while keeping it clean and natural:

Working with a leading US-based B2C consumer tech company, I currently manage strategy and operations, based out of Gurgaon. Professionally driven and growth-oriented, I enjoy solving complex business problems and building impactful solutions at scale. With a CTC of 60+ LPA and a height of 5’11, I come from a Hindu background and am well-settled in Gurgaon. I value ambition, consistency, and a balanced approach to life.

Outside of work, I’m deeply into fitness and sports—staying active is an important part of my routine. I enjoy playing sports, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and pushing my limits physically. I also love to travel and explore new places whenever time allows, whether it’s a quick getaway or a planned trip. Looking to connect with like-minded individuals—happy to share more and get to know each other better.

Hi, I am 32 M based in Rajasthan. Did my MBA from a Tier 1 BSchool and worked in corporate for a few years following that. Now would be soon joining a job with a very high international exposure. My job profile would involve relocating to different countries once every 3-5 years so I expect my partner to adjust accordingly as I am not looking for a long distance relationship.

It's just that I have never been in a relationship earlier so I kind of feel nervous around the opposite gender. Also, I expect no serious past relationships from my partner as well. Also mental health plays a vital role in my life, so would love someone who enjoys peaceful conversation and calm environment.

Am open to a meaningful connection and not a short time fling and would love to find a connection here.

PS: I belong to Muslim religion but my religion is humanity (others may like to call it atheist but am not and I believe in a superior entity who may go by many names), am purely vegetarian (it's hard to believe for most people considering my religion but I don't even eat eggs so;)) , non-smoker, non drinker. I have no preference in my partner's religion or caste whatsoever. It's just that the vibes should match.

Feel free to comment or dm if you find my description relatable or wanna take a chance with me :)

Hi,

I’m 31, based in Hyderabad and currently in Chennai for work. I work as a CXO in the luxury retail space with an Australia-based business, and also run my own consulting firm in India. Most of my time goes into building and scaling businesses — now looking to build something meaningful on the personal side as well.

Professionally sorted, emotionally stable, and not a fan of unnecessary drama — which, I think, is a good place to start.

I enjoy traveling, good food (always open to recommendations), and conversations that have depth.

Looking for someone who:

- Knows what she wants

- Has her own ambition and individuality

- Is open to building something real and long-term

Not here for time-pass — unless it’s over good food and a good conversation.

If this resonates, happy to connect.

I am mbbs student looking for serious relationship and something serious about it . Currently in chennai. I am A genuine person. Respect ur thoughts Calm and caring person. I am good listener.

I want something serious, who are focused in life and goal oriented. Currently I am from chennai. Cute guy u say . When we talk I can share everything. . I am not gonna make any problem or thing that's hurt my opposite person.

I’m someone who values honesty, kindness, and meaningful connections. I believe a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, and open communication. I’m looking for a genuine, serious relationship with a good-hearted man who knows how to treat a partner with care and understanding. Someone who is emotionally mature, supportive, and ready to grow together through life’s ups and downs. I appreciate simple joys, deep conversations, and shared laughter. Loyalty and sincerity matter a lot to me. If you’re someone who is respectful, responsible, and truly interested in building something real and long-lasting, I’d love to get to know you better.