u/mittensonnakitten

Well I found out we are getting the kids a day earlier than expected because BM has to work all day tomorrow. Bf gets all excited because “now he can plan a sleepover for them” uhhhhhhhhhh , does this stress anyone else tf out? My one day a week to unwind and relax all to myself is not only taken away because we get the kids but on top of it I should also just go with kids screaming and running around all night? I’m stressed just thinking about it. I asked my bf if sleepovers can be planned in advance not just the day of because I have to mentally prepare myself for that. Is this just me or anyone else?

My boyfriend smokes weed. I don’t.

My only issue with it is that it smells. The only thing I ask is not to smoke in the garage if he buys a preroll. He usually gets pens but the prerolls are obviously cheaper. We got in a horrible argument yesterday because I don’t want him smoking in the garage especially because we have two children living in our home. We have a backyard he can put a chair in and smoke. The smell disgusts me and I feel like it’s not that big of an ask. If he would just take it outside I would have nothing to say about it.

After our horrible argument yesterday we both said sorry and I thought we would move past it… yet again today during his lunch break he goes home and smokes in the garage. I’m not an angry person but when a simple request can’t even be met I start to reach my limit. I feel like it is valid to not want my garage to smell like a dispensary. I’m just at my wits end, but if I get angry and annoyed I’m crazy! It just hurts me that the person I love the most makes me feel like he doesn’t respect my opinion or my side of things. It’s not like I’m asking him to throw it out or stop smoking or anything along those lines. What next step do I take to either get over my opinion about the smell or approach him with an ultimatum?