u/minasweetgirl

I know I shouldn't take what my daughter says too seriously. She was having a meltdown on Mother's Day, after spending time with her cousins. I didn't go because I wanted the day to myself, and was turning in assignments before the end of the semester. Anyway she comes home in a bad mood, throwing a fit, because my husband had to go back to the car to get a late birthday present she got.

I'm getting on to her because she's kicking and throwing things. This is not like her at all, and I'm shocked. She then starts telling me that she likes daddy better. This crushed me. Since then she's been saying she loves daddy more. I seriously wanted to go hide in my room and cry for a bit.

At this point I'm kind of bitter towards my husband. I'm the one with her all day, everyday. I take care of her. I'm the one that deals with her temper tantrums. Also the one that sleeps next to her at night. My husband is an involved parent, but for whatever reason when she gets upset it sets him off and he can't handle it. Usually I have to get involved, or he just keeps escalating the issue.

So idk I'm just sad. When I was a little girl. I was super close with my mom. I guess I was hoping she would want to be close with me too. Maybe it's just the fuck you 4's and she knows what to say to hurt me, when she's mad.

My daughter just turned 4 and I was wanting to see if I can get her into Pre-K in the school district, I picked one of the Montessori schools as a school choice. Now I have to take her to get some testing done?

Like what are they testing a 4 year old on? She knows her shapes and colors. We've been working on letters and numbers. She struggles counting to 10, because it doesn't interest her. She'll start listing off random numbers.

But what are they testing them on?

I'm trying to remember when I was going into kinder, my parents put me in a private school. So I had to get tested, but all I remember seeing were shapes. I don't know what to expect, or how to prepare her.

Anybody that has any experience please let me know. Even just telling me it's just shapes or whatever is helpful. I'm just nervous for her.

So I took a really really long break from ddv. I think the last time I played Cinderella hadn't been added yet, but she had been announced. I got back in like a or two before Pocahontas was added.

I know they aren't doing outfit or decor challenges anymore. Which I get because it didn't matter, people would downvote if the the outfit and decor wasn't cohesive with the challenge that week.

I'm seeing people saying that they're doing worse, than before. I'm on the other hand doing better. I remember before the change I would consistently get 300-600 moonstones. The highest I got was 900 moonstones, before the change. I've done I think 3 or 4 challenges so far and I've gotten 1200-1500 moonstones. So I've been really happy, however I've seen people really upset.

Did they change the voting system itself? Is it algorithm problem? Or are there less people doing DreamSnaps?

Maybe it's just a combinations of things going on. It just sucks to see so many people upset.

So I just completed Tiana's friendship quests. While the storyline for it was really cute, and I liked how it ended with celebrating Mardi Gras, I just felt that it was quite short. Which got me into thinking about other things. So here is my list. (Also it's taken me since Tiana was added to get her to lvl 10. I tend of hyperfixate on the game, and then abandon it for a few months. Then the cycle begins.)

I would like to see more levels for the player. When we first start we level up, and get rewards. When the game first came out I thought they would add 10 levels for every dlc, or even for major updates. Which did not happen. Once we got to level 40, that was it. Which I found strange, since it's a live service game. Like what is the incentive to continue gathering things and crafting? I get that dreamlight is a reward, but that's it and nothing else.

I want longer friendship quests/maybe even more added quests to the ones we already have. Yes I know you can buy dreambundles in the premium shop, but it would be nice to get some during updates or with new dlc.

I want a better camera mode. At the current moment I'm frustrated with how limiting it is. Our character is stuck in one spot, and we cannot move them. We can't even zoom in or out, or even pan the camera to the left or right. I don't want to spend hours trying to get the pose right, with the other villagers.

I want more poses. Even just poses with can we do with villagers would be really cool. We can already do them with Sven, Maximus, khan, and Pegasus. Why not with the villagers in the area, or even just the ones that are following us around.

More base game hairstyles. There's not really a ton of options, and if you want more it's either through the premium shop or a dlc. Which isn't a whole lot either.

That's pretty much it. I hope we get to see more improvement with the game. It's one of my favorites, if not my favorite game. My replacement to the sims 4 unfortunately.