u/milkypot

Hi,

Would love some advice if anyone is able to please. I am currently in a flatshare with one other girl and I understand from the 01May assured short hold tenancy will no longer exist and it changes to a rolling basis. I want to move out asap and also understand I need to give two months notice, what I’m confused about is if I still need to find a replacement tenant?

I’ve heard two different things from my letting agency and they seem to keep contradicting themself. If I didn’t find a replacement tenant, is the rent all on my flatmate to pay?

I’m also confused on if there is no fixed date to leave anymore then how am I meant to leave the property if I can’t find a replacement tenant and if I don’t want to end the agreement for my flatmate as well?

Hello, I am having some difficulty figuring out what to do in this situation. I (22F) have been dating a boy (23M) since January, before we were ever intimate with eachother I disclosed to him that I had got GHSV-1 three years ago in an uninformed situation. I relayed how important sexual health is to me and that I wanted to tell him so he could make an informed choice of us being intimate. He told me he is completely ok with it and he also told me that he was clean, so all good to go ahead…

Fast forward to two nights ago, I found out he slept with someone else before me which I’m fine with however, he told me he never actually got tested and he just assumed he was clean as he had no symptoms. Now this has really upset me as he should know that stds can lay dormant and be present with no symptoms, he has also technically lied to me about his sexual health and I feel it is a huge betrayal of trust.

I feel like he has no respect for me at all, I would personally never do that to someone and I feel like I can’t see myself being able to get over this.

Now he may genuinely not have an STD and be right upon his assumption however it doesn’t make it ok, and it also makes me think how many other times he has never got tested thinking everything was ok.

Is this something that can be overlooked and forgiven?

Hey guys, really just need to speak to someone to understand how I should feel about this situation.

I (22F), was diagnosed with ghsv-1 three years ago. I have been dating this boy and disclosed to him which was huge for me as I had never told someone before. He was completely fine with it and we made it clear that we were ‘clean’ and had no other stds. We’ve been casually dating for three months now and lastnight I found out he slept with someone before me but he never got tested. I personally found it extremely disrespectful that he willingly slept with me knowing he didn’t get tested and especially because he knew how important sexual health is to me considering I have hsv.

I feel really mad about the situation and there’s nothing we can do to change the past but I just don’t know if I’m overreacting as I feel I don’t want to see him again, but is it that deep?