Hi. I have a rather unusual question for this thread.
I have a pretty strong ddlg kink. For the past six months, I've only written with one person from this community. I thought my boundaries were very well defined. However, recently he wrote me something that made me feel very bad (he was insulting me, still in a ddlg style, but it hurt me deeply in my heart).
I told him about it and he replied that "I should accept it since I'm submissive".
I feel like this shouldn't be happening, but she's the only person I know. So I created this Reddit account and I'm asking for your advice... After all, I am new to this community and I only know the opinion of my dom. Should I really agree to all this? What should I do about it? I'm afraid to tell him how much it hurts me.
The worst part is that I used the safe word and burst into tears like never before, but the person laughed and continued. I feel weird about it. On the one hand, I know I'm submissive, just like he says. I'm afraid of losing contact, eh, I don't want sex to ruin our friendship.
(forgive me if I don't write the best in English)