u/klutzysylph

Entha involve avvaddu anukunna, ee posts eh malli malli kanipistunnay. So I decided to pen down my experience.

Nen inter lo unnappudu, ma naanna Varanasi (Kashi) vellaru with his friends. Oka 10 days trip anamata, they kinda explored UP.

Return vachaka, ala Kashi vellina person ki intlo vaallu antha kaallu kadigi, thala paina challukune tradition undi ata, I don't know how legitimate that is.

So ma amma cheppindi ma daddy ki. Aayanemo, avanni em undav, naa kaallu nen kadukkolena enti? Nuv kotha kotha panulu pettukoku ani chepparu. But my mom was adamant.

Return ochina roju, morning 4-4:30 ki ala vacharu. Mom woke me up to do rituals. Ma daddy bayata ninchoni unnaru, nannu chusi, "Nuv cheste chesav, ammaiki kuda nerpistav ivvani! Nuv velli padukomma," annaru.

Sare last lo kaallaki dannam pettuko ani ma amma ante, nen ninne oddu ani cheptunna, malli ammaini kuda dannam pettuko antav, chaalle ika ani he went to freshen up.

Apudu antha aalochinchale, but ikkada andarni chusi, I realize what a gem he is.

Like, he did that. He, my dad.

My dad who forbids me from wearing tight clothes.

My dad who doesn't allow me to go out much.

My dad who hails from a very small remote vilage.

My dad whose parents were illiterate.

I hope I got the point across. Miru inka ignorance lo unte evaru em cheyleru. Goodnight.

Edo real life interactions takkuva ani, kasep chill avvadaniki Reddit ki oste, ye post chusina ragebait post eh 😭😭.

Some talk about their insecurities (tappu ledu) but blame others for it, konni na insecurities trigger chestaru, some post on feminism and the misogyny I see in the comment sections 😭.

Sare ivemi kaadu ani, dopamine inducing ga untadi le ani cat subs, other cute animal subs open cheste, akkada ide gola. You're abusing animals for content ani.

Ni ayya ani thittalani undi, kaani samskaram addu ostundi. Smh. Online lo ochi miru miru kottukunte maarpu raadu, stop spreading hate and focus on how you can bring change if you really care.

Na feed ki matram dooram ga undandi, I prefer fake relationship posts over this 😔✋️.

Jagrathaga undandi, run out kakandi 🥀.

Eppati lagane amma tho matladali ani phone chesa ivala madhyanam. Time 12:30 kavostondi. Amma phone answer cheygane, full noise vastondi. Ekkada unnav mummy ante, school ki velli vastunna andi.

Intha yenda, paiga public transport. Work stress na valla kadu, ee year manesta ani, prati year ee okka year chesta ani continue ipotadi. Enduku amma alaga ante, nuv job chese appudu elagu ni daggarki ochesta kada, appati varuku veltale antadi.

Ala matladutu, tinnava amma ante, "Ipudu velli tintanu. Ninna ratri sanivaram kada, upavasam unnanu, nirasam ga undi. Anduke proddune, tiffin kakunda annam tinnanu, ipudu koncham aagi tinta", ani cheppindi.

"Menopause daggarki ostundi kada, mummy, enni sarlu cheppina ee vaaralu patistav enti", ani koncham chiragga ante, navvi oorukundi.

Ala kaburlalo, cheppala vadda anukuntu, "Ammalu, happy mothers' day" ani cheppa. Anthe, chala emotional ipoindi. "Thanks ra, buddi. Ayina, em Mothers' day, papayi ki nachela emina specials chesi pettochu ga ivala okka roju ayina, kani amma akkada ledu," ani baadhapadindi.

Ah kshanam, "nikante pedda special emuntadi mummy" andam anukunna, kani bidiyam tho kontha, amma already emotional ga undi ani kontha, anakunda aagipoya.

Ee sari intiki vellinappudu, ee kaburlu anni, direct ga chepta. Amma kallalo kani, gonthulo kani antha baadha undadu nenu eduruga unte.

Miss you, ammalu.

I'm bored and can't sleep, so here's a story of how I jeopardised myself in 9th class.

Coming to the story, holidays ki ammamma vaalla intiki velli, return ostunnam, my mom and me. Mem unde ooru, it's a small town, almost like a village anamata. Transport koncham kastam.

Bus stand daggara nundi ma illu 1.5km. Day time ithe auto ekkesi velpotam, but appudu time 9:30 kavostondi, wait chese opika led anesi naduchukuntu veltunnam.

Madhyalo oka chota my mom stopped to get some milk, but she told me to keep walking coz I had my backpack on. (First mistake.)

Koncham dooram vellaka, I noticed an auto was following me. Nen chusa anesi, na pakkane ochi aapadu auto atanu. He said, "Entamma okkadanive veltunnav ee time lo?"

He sounded polite, so cheppa, ma mummy venaka ostunnaru ani. Then he said, bus stand nundi choostunna, papam ah bag tho entha dooram nadustav, auto ekku.

Nenemo, parledu, malli nen kanipinchapothe ma mummy tension padtaru, mir vellandi ani cheppa. But he insisted, saying, mi mummy inka ah shop daggare undi, ee cheekati lo okkate nadustava adi idi ani.

Nen emo, na bag lo money kuda levu, ma mummy vachi ivvalsinde ante, he said, money em oddu, I'll drop you for free get in annadu. (Notice how he doesn't want to wait for my mom.)

Inka no cheppaleka, I got in. Alone. Na daggara mobile kuda ledu. Akkada nundi asal houses kuda undav ma neighborhood vache varuku. Ala ela ekkesa ani ekkaka realize ayya. (Second mistake.)

500mts undachu ma intiki inka. Ah 500mts lo 500 times ina venakki tirigi chusi untadu nannu atanu. At some point, I thought accident lo potanemo ee roju, migata vishyalu pakkana pedite.

Somehow, ma illu daggara ki ochindi. Ikkada aapandi ante he hesitated and asked, "Mi nanna <insertname> master ah?" I said, "Yes."

Ventane auto aapadu, nen digaka venakki kuda chudakunda velpoyadu. My father's reputation saved me that day.

I know entha stupid ga behave chesano ah roju. So 3 years varuku ee incident evarki cheppale. My mom thought I js walked fast, madhyalo parigetta ani kuda anukunnarata 😭😂.

After 3 years, tongue slip ayyi cheppalsi ochindi. Ma daddy full thittaru, ala antha chinna vishyam ki kuda no cheppaleva ani. I was like, what do you expect? I was just a kid.

So yeah, that's the story and thankfully nothing happened.

Our youth doesn't know how to debate. I know, that's a huge statement, but stay with me.

For example, oppression of a gender anna topic iste, many of them are ready to say, "I come from so and so place, so and so family, but I've never seen it, so it's invalid."

It's funny because, it's like saying, "Hey, I ate today, global hunger is a myth!"

Guess what? Prapancham lo nuvvu kakunda inka chala mandi unnaru, who're possibly waiting for their voice to be heard. Just because nuv experience cheyledu, idi jaragaledu ante, nijalu abadhalu ipovu.

Anyway, it's always fun seeing those comments coz people dignify even such type of comments with a reply and the other person still lives in denial 😂.