u/kikov666

Tengo 28 años (varón), soy de Molina y tengo Síndrome de Asperger. He oído hablar de Aspermur que está en Murcia capital pero no sé si es lo que busco. Lo que busco no es algo como un centro de día (no tengo ese nivel de dependencia) sino algún sitio que sirva para hacer actividades, quedadas, basicamente conocer a gente con Síndrome de Asperger porque soy el típico que perdió a todos sus amigos desde la adolescencia.

He llegado a un punto en mi vida en que no quiero ser como los demás, quiero conocer a gente con mi condición, porque no me entiendo con gente "normal" (neurotípica, como se dice a veces). No siento esa conexión con la gente promedio, y supongo que es recíproco.

Aquí en Molina tenemos a Talentismo/Astrade que es para TEA muy avanzado y también está Afesmo que es para personas que sufren trastornos psicóticos, y más lugares pero de Asperger no conozco NADA por aquí.

I mean in terms of cultural edginess, social nihilism/rebelliousness, unpredictable events, etc. If we were talking about violence or war in general, early 2000s is tame compared to previous centuries.

I'm personally genZ (28M) and, despite I lived early 2000s as a young kid, I have the impression that early 2000-2004 were extremelly chaotic, thrillin: 11-S, a lot of self-destructive/nonchalant teens (movies are not the reason why I say this), a lot of reckless stuff on MTV like Jackass, the effect of Columbine massacre on teens' mindsets, a lot of loud music (nu metal in particular), that consumerist lifestyle, etc...

It was very cool but also a kinda scary time to be alive, everything changed extremelly fast while after the 2010s changes became significantly slower. What do you all think? Do you agree? Were there a more chaotic period?

P.S: I wanted to write "the most chaotic years" in the title, english is not my main language

I (28M) am diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome since childhood, and I'm gay-bisexual (definitely attracted to men, but unsure about women). I've met many gays claiming I'm too autistic for them. While autistic men (all of them being straight) tend to find me too gay to hang out with them. And straight NT men are mean to me because I'm both gay and autistic of course.

To be honest, people notice my autism way more easily than my same-sex attraction because I don't behave stereotypically queer at all. And I have to say women of all types (NT, ND, straight, bi, lesbian...) are more tolerant to me but I don't want to hang out with women.

Where are all the gay and bisexual aspies? I've read LGBT identities are more common among people on the spectrum, but all male aspies I've met are straight as a narrow and kinda homophobic

I (28M) am an aspie. Diagnosed at age 6. My parents got divorced when I was 2 years old. My father has been very emotionally negligent since then. He doesn't seem to like talking to me, he avoids reflecting about how I feel, he doesn't ask me about my views. He only cares about watching soccer at TV, politics, his job and hot women.

He also despises my music tastes, my clothing style... which is kinda weird because he is very tolerant with other people. I've realized he simply finds me a disgrace, because he'd rather having a more skilled son. I mean, he has always hated when I'm physically clumsy or unorganized. He also dislikes how lonely I am.

My mother is less demanding on this sense, she is not affectionate nor affirming at all, but at least she accepts my mental condition. My father has always felt bad when it comes to me, firstly because I was a terrible soccer player when I was a kid. Also due to my fixations.

My father is ableist. I've always had daddy issues but didn't realize the reason why my father is like that, now I see it, and makes me sad.

I (28M) suffer from severe isolation, because I only have my direct family's company. I don't have friends and I don't hang out since years ago. I tend to cope a lot: pornography, fapping, ocasional hook ups, food, videogames, gym. Everything feels like a cope. Once I stop to cope and I have a reflecting time, I start to feel suicidal again. I used to do self harm (no details...) and I'm still on the cycle.

Thinking about loneliness it's what triggers it.

P.S: yes, I'm autistic.