So I cut him off and blocked him everywhere after being so done with the situation. I know its for the best since I wanted a relationship and he didnt. It hurts so bad to think that I might not see him again. But to my question: After Im done healing from this, is it possible to meet him? Or will it restart the whole healing process that Ive just done? Is being intimate (sex) again a horrible idea?
So Ive been seeing him for 5 months, we hangout a lot and I even met his family. We act like a couple but are not. When I asked what are we he said he likes me and when I ask if he could ever be in relationship he said he could and he asked me the same question. But he didnt ask THE QUESTION. So we still are not together. Surely if he really wanted to be together he would ask it by now. I just feel like he is lying about stuff because I dont understand why things are not adding up. Im so done feeling confused and telling my friends that im in a situationship its so embarrassing. But at the same time being with him feels so good
I have been dating this guy since January. We see each other as often as possible and I feel so strongly for him. The only issue we had was when he found out about my sexual history. After that he said that he doesnt know if he can continue with me but I think he changed his mind because we have still been seeing each other after that incident. That whole thing did make me feel insecure about this. I started to question if he would only use me for sex or that he doesnt take me serious anymore. He has said that Im the only one in his heart, he loves me etc.. But its been four months and we are still not in a relationship.. Before I did ask if he liked me and what we are, he said that he likes me.. He has never been in relationship so I understand if he doesnt wanna hurry anything but four months seems like a long time to be a situationship or whatever this is. We already act like a couple so I dont really understand why not commit. Its not even like I want a relationship so badly because I wasnt looking for one anyways but I dont wanna be confused on whats going on between us.
Im curious what you guys think this sounds like? Is he using me or is he just moving slowly? The only solution is probably to just talk to him but I wanna hear someone else’s opion on this ..