u/jadedeternity

White student called me a b#tch infront of the whole class

I'm a black transgender woman Finishing my first semester of college which has been really hard for me. have been working on a group assignment with a student in my class for the past  week. The students behavior is extremely unstable so after noticing strange behaviour I stayed away.They already have lashed out randomly at other students who they felt were being too noisy and nothing has been done about her behavior. I had to work on a group assignment with her and I already felt apprehensive but wanted to get it out of the way. When I was on my way to class I texted the group that I would be late and she proceeded to antagonize me about it in the WhatsApp group anatognizing me like I was her kid saying I would be a horrible social worker and I don't know anything. I showed up 15mins before our presentation so there was plenty of time. Right before we presented the assignment, the student strategically started getting confrontational with me. I tried to avoid them but the more I did the more they became enraged and just screamed out that im a backstabbing b#tch infront of the whole class. I felt completely humiliated as everyone  gasped then laughed. The teacher said our presentation was cancelled then later on told us we need to prove what we worked on for the assignment because this girl is claiming I did absolutely nothing on it. (Which isn't true and I had evidence to show that) It doesn't seem like anything was done to penalize this student for treating me this way and it doesn't seem fair. If this were highschool she would have needed to at least go to the principles office. I was hoping something could be done because this whole situation has been very traumatic for me. I struggle sleeping now and my anxiety is ten times worse because I keep replaying the humiliation of what happened to me. I feel this is blatant favoritism to a white student who felt comfortable dragging me infront of the class because I'm marginalized and they get to sit comfortably in their white female privilege knowing that nothing will happen to them.

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u/jadedeternity — 2 days ago

I was called the b word by a student at my college today

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Im a trans girl Finishing my first semester of college which has been really hard for me. have been working on a group assignment with a student in my class for the past week. The students behavior is extremely unstable and I suspect bipolar so after noticing strange things I stayed away.They already have lashed out randomly at other students who they felt were being too noisy and nothing has been done about her behavior. I had to work on a group assignment with her and I already felt apprehensive but wanted to get it out of the way. When I was on my way to class I texted the group that I would be late and she proceeded to antagonize me about it in the WhatsApp group anatognizing me like I was her kid. I showed up 15mins before our presentation so there was plenty of time. Right before we presented the assignment, the student strategically started getting confrontational with me. I tried to avoid them but the more I did the more they became enraged and just screamed out that im a backstabbing b#tch infront of the whole class. I felt completely humiliated as everyone gasped then laughed. The teacher said our presentation was cancelled then later on told us we need to prove what we worked on for the assignment because this girl is claiming I did absolutely nothing on it. (Which isn't true and I had evidence to show that) It doesn't seem like anything was done to penalize this student for treating me this way and it doesn't seem fair. If this were highschool she would have needed to at least go to the principles office. Its like she consistently has used her white cud privilege to get away with murder. This just happened yesterday,I would like to get advice on what I could do about this situation in terms of making sure she is held responsible for what she did to me.

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u/jadedeternity — 3 days ago