Crush is distant
Is it over? Crush is distant
Hi! So I started talking to this guy recently at school (I do have a little crush on him BUT I want to work on being friends with him first / see where it goes) the first time we ever talked, we talked for about 2 hours and I exchanged socials with him. We didn't talk too much over text but sometimes I noticed he would leave me on opened (saw my text but didn't respond) but I didn't think too much of it and he did apologise the first time...and sometimes we did actually text well! (I noticed he saved some of my chats) Then one day after school (it was late at night) I asked over text if he wanted to leave school together and walk for a bit and at first he left me opened but then I sent another follow up text and he said he'll go on a walk with me. The walk was SO GOOD!!!! 🥹🥹 AHHHH it was so fun! At the end of the walk, he asked smth along the lines of 'Why did you ask me on a walk, did you mean anything by it?' BRO I wasn't expecting that question at all and I was so taken back and it was the first time being asked a question like that!!! I responded with 'Noooo, we're just friends' but I slightly laughing (awkwardness?) and was really shy. After that moment, I feel like he's been a lot more cold and distant with me / he's avoiding me. Whenever I try to make conversation with him he seems really disengaged and it feels very one sided but idk if he's just tired/stressed of school. Recently I asked over text if he wanted to hang out at any point and he left me on opened. 🤧🤧 I'm not sure what to do, I know it seems slightly obvious that he's uninterested in me but idk for sure and I want to try to make things work and if they don't that's fine but I want to at least try!!! Tbf I feel like it's my slightly my fault due to my response to his question BUT I was just so surprised.
What should I do??? Is it possible that he also liked me too? (I don't think so though) It's been a month since the walk happened
Sorry for the long paragraph 😭, thank you for reading!