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I will even claim that 99% of relationships at that age doesn't have a happy ending.. even when there's a mutual interest or even love..

Do people seriously thinks they can look at cards and know the future or past

Since a young age I couldn't make sense of celebrating my birthdays, it seemed to me not a good idea to celebrate losing another year of my life ( it's like celebrating getting closer and closer to your death ) but that's not what I wanna discuss, the thing is, days passes by, and it would never be given back to you, your life is already going, there's no time where you can reset or pause and come back, you will never be this age again, you will never live 2026, so why don't you just make peace with yourself ? Why are you ganging up on yourself with everyone who brought you pain ? By hating yourself, by blaming yourself, by looking down on yourself, you are dooming yourself for a joyless life. So why don't you accept yourself, you can't run, you can't hide, you can't undone what you have done, all you can do is accept yourself, accept that you will live the rest of your life with yourself, so you better get on a good terms with yourself and starts taking care of yourself and do things for yourself or watch every day being taken from you forever....

And khlatha um kalthoum : عمري ضايع ازاي يحسبوه عليا ؟

Yess. Your life was wasted, why are they talking as if you have lived it ? You didn't, you were soo beaten up that you werent even alive.

We all go through our own struggle and problems that leaves a scar, pain or confusion in our minds, problems that by holding them in, slowly starts becoming part of who we are, as if we buried them deep that it started growing like a seed, and so everyone try to find their own way to relieve themselves, whether by a big effort of making peace with that struggle, by avoidance or sadly by >! SH !<, the thing is -and beacuse- of our society, talking about problems which does help you deal, solve or lift the burden from your shoulder became not only uncomfortable to do, but unfortunately sometimes it turns to a source of pain, for your vent may be used against you or expose your vulnerability to someone who is undeserving..

And thus we choose to stay in our comfort zone, even tho we know it's not helpful but rather a self destructive behavior..

But Isn't it sad the nights you spend in silence, holding your heavy thoughts, seeking to let them out, for someone to share the burden or yet no one is there

You had a lot of time to think yet noone was there to tell your thoughts to, you struggled with some of those thoughts that you wish by exposing them, by telling someone what you were thinking, or what you have done it would feel less heavier, or that their might and pain might dissolve, for it have been your fate for sometime to long be silent and in pain, until someone lift the burden by being there for you, yeah, what a blessing is that, for someone to be there for you, wanting nothing but to listen, to listen to YOUR thoughts.. 

If the time came I'll be there to listen to you.. or I hope people appreciate you and you will be surrounded by people who makes you comfortable in your vulnerability..

One of the most major depressive thoughts that young adults and teens happen to suffer from is the fear of being a disappointment, to be exact, it's always coming from the idea that the expectations that someone who is not You, took it upon themselves with no audacity that this is what you should become.. those expectations set for you and thus tying you, not only that they restrain you from exploring yourself, exploring who you truly are and what you would love to become and enjoy the journey for becoming.. but also by time it becomes a burden, a cage and a wall that slowly starts closing in, with each day passing by, you feel suffocated, you feel exhausted mentally and all your energy is slowly draining.. leaving you numb and lifeless as if you are nothing but a zombie, your soul starts slipping away, burying itself deep withing you in its own defensive mechanism.. your eyes loses its spark, joy and happiness starts becoming unfamiliar strange and unfamiliar.

All because of what ? Because of someone else's CURSE upon you, an expectation that you didn't ask for, an expectation that treated you as nothing but a soulless machine.

You are more than reaching someone expectation, you are more than being tied by other people's needs from you, you should have your own desires and you should set your own journey. Let go of all those shackles, it's not up for you to please people when you are not there for yourself, take it easy upon yourself and you will figure it out...

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I think we all know that one of the major reasons for falling in love is understanding, familiarity and attraction, but wouldnt those things be achievable in a short time by having long and deep conversations ? Why we think it's better to have a long period of time for it to be accepted ?