u/idk2115_ihatelife

Me and my bf live an hour away from eachother so I kinda spam texted him and it woke him up, from my knowledge his phone was on silent so when he said that I was like “omg I’m so sorry I didn’t realize you kept your ringer on I won’t do it again” he goes “no it was on silent I just put it on a wooden desk” as much as I get that it is agrivating my attention wa snot ot wake him up and like how is it my fault he put his phone on a wooden desk

My bisexual cis bf who’s mainly only ever dated cis guys saw a photo of me back when I was forced to dress feminine and have ling hair I was around 16 and said “you should back this era though obviously it’s your choice” he’s never said anything like that before and I made sure before dating him that he was aware that I’m going to go on hormones and get top surgery and he was cool with that, and I just idk how to explain to him without hurting his feeling how uncomfortable him saying that made me

Edit: title meant to say he asked me to detransition idk why that autocorrected to t