u/healermoonchild

This is the second time it happens this week. Door is kept closed when I’m away. I asked her if she was looking for something in my room since I keep getting Ring notifications about her being in my room.

She took hours to reply, she replied the next morning, she claims she was with a friend in the living room and wanted to see if I was there as to not disturb me with noise.

The funny thing is, she’s looking everywhere, except at my bed where is the only place I could possibly be if I was there. She looks all around. Except my bed.

Just the day before, she saw me getting out of the apartment with luggage, and my dog. I told her I’d be back in a few days. She did this fully knowing I wasn’t there.

Even if her excuse was true. what if I was there? What if I was sleeping or watching tv in the privacy of my room. She still barging in my room without permission.

She didn’t text me or call me before or after snooping.

I’m supposed to meet with her tomorrow and sign a lease contract for 7 months at the leasing office.

I told her before we do that, I want the contract we have between us revised. I think I want to add a privacy policy to our original contract. Which is wild to me that I even have to ask for this to be included.

I’m changing the locks tomorrow. I’ve been in the apartment less than 4 weeks. I found her room to rent on FB marketplace.