I like an eclectic earthy modern farmhouse vibe (i literally live in an 1860s farmhouse). Would these chairs (1st photo) work better than the current ones? I don't want wood because there's already so much woodwork/wood tones in the room. The price on 4 of these is very good.
I can't decide if I'm being an ungrateful bitch or if my disappointment is warranted. My husband got me an address sign we've been talking about getting for our house (why is it a gift for me?) and grocery store flowers he bought on the way home from work yesterday. He tells me I make all holidays miserable because he can never please me. Idk. I feel sad. Every single second of motherhood is hard. I just wanted to feel seen for one day out of the year. Yesterday evening was like any other. I made dinner (which he insulted), cleaned the kitchen, put the kids to bed. Nothing special.
Not to mention the fact that he doesn't have to lift a finger to celebrate his own mom. I got her flowers (a $70 arrangement from an actual florist), a fancy scented candle, and a card. I mentioned that and how he never said thank you, and he said sarcastically, "oh wow, you ordered flowers." Well if it's that easy, why didnt you do it for me, the mother of your children?
Eta: also he cheated on me 3 years ago when my daughter was a newborn and I was still on maternity leave. The bar is in hell.