u/gingersnappie1

lost my dad at 18- fell into a victim mindset. any advice?

not where i want to be- 21f.

family gone, friends and relationships non existent. i crave life, i crave travel, parties, young love, experience, being dumb and hot. but i have stayed stagnent since i was 18. been doing the same thing every day, which is a whole lotta nothing. i smoke weed, sometimes cook and workout but i dont see people, i dont date, i just sit around at home, do schoolwork, and do everything by myself.

fucked my life over by changing universities after he passed. i deeply regret that decision.

I barely excel at the things I do because I waste my potential. I feel like a loser on reddit trying to ask strangers for advice but this seems like the only source of connection I have right now.

i have no goals, and i see no future for myself. feeling like i watch days go by infront of me. feels like im apart of my life and not in charge of it. i try not to let my past personal tragedies define me. how do i snap out of depression and a victim mindset.

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u/gingersnappie1 — 12 hours ago

there has to be a way out - 21f

not where i want to be- 21f.

family gone, friends and relationships non existent. i crave life, i crave travel, parties, young love, experience, being young dumb and hot. but i have stayed stagnent since i was 18. been doing the same thing every day, which is a whole lotta nothing. i smoke weed, sometimes cook and workout but i dont see people, i dont date, i just sit around at home, do schoolwork, and do everything by myself.

I barely excel at the things I do because I waste my potential. I feel like a loser on reddit trying to ask strangers for advice but this seems like the only source of connection I have right now lol.

i have no goals, and i see no future for myself. feeling like i watch days go by infront of me. feels like im apart of my life and not in charge of it. how do i snap out of depression and a victim mindset.

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u/gingersnappie1 — 12 hours ago

there has to be more to life

not where i want to be- 21f

family gone, friends and relationships non existent. i crave life, i crave travel, parties, young love, experience. but i have stayed stagnent since i was 18. been doing the same thing every day, which is a whole lotta nothing. i dont see people, i dont date, i just sit around at home, do schoolwork, and do everything by myself. i barely excel at the things I do because I waste my potential.

feeling like i watch days go by infront of me. feels like im apart of my life and not in charge of it. how do i snap out of depression and a victim mindset.

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u/gingersnappie1 — 12 hours ago

do sneakers (jordan's, dunks etc) appreciate as time goes on?

have a bunch of size 8.5-9 deadstock sneakers from off white to travis scott collabs. not sure if I should keep them or sell them within the next few years. where would be the best and easiest way to sell them!

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u/gingersnappie1 — 15 hours ago

is butt acne on a woman a dealbreaker?

21F and I've been struggling with butt acne for like five years now it comes and goes, but when it comes, it's fucked up. Currently have like a bunch of red bumps on my butt, and I I'm losing hope every day. I've been to dermatologists. I've done all the routines. it's painful, gross and my beauty is being compromised by the look of my spotty ass!!

I just wanna know that I have hope in finding someone to love me. I've never been in a relationship. I've always let this hold me back and I'm kind of tired.

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u/gingersnappie1 — 2 days ago

why is the pain so bad. could it be something other than folliculitus?

pain is intense. my will to live is starting to fade lol.

u/gingersnappie1 — 2 days ago

what should i do?

dad passed a couple years back and left me with an insane amount of sneakers. from travis scott to

off-white. i'm overwhelmed cuz idk where to sell them for good money. any suggestions?

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u/gingersnappie1 — 2 days ago

what is this on my butt?? 21f want some opinions!!

hidrenitis supertiva or folliculitus? been suffering since age 16. been diagnosed multiplie times with folliculitus but it keeps coming back.

went away for a while after a sunny beach vacation.

it all started with massive breakout after a full body wax when i was 16, broke out everywhere. sometimes on butt, back, arms and legs.

loosing faith in doctors and deems as i have tried chlorhexidine, benzyl peroxide, anti bac wash, clindamycin, dapsone.. EVERYTHING

recently only butt, pubic area and legs. they are either big or small cysts that can fill with puss or they just flatten out. they are PAINFULL!! some of them get super painful to the point i can't run against them or put friction on them.

i looked at my legs and see that i have two golf ball like bumps on my knee and ankle, atypical when i breakout in folliculitus.

i'm having health anxiety rn. im so tired. this is quite debilitating and i feel like giving up loll

u/gingersnappie1 — 2 days ago

what could this even be?? any advice pls help- 21f

is this hs or folliculitus?? pls help lol 21f !!!!!!

hidrenitis supertiva or folliculitus? been suffering since age 16. been diagnosed multiplie times with folliculitus but it keeps coming back.

only time it really went away for a while was after a sunny beach vacation.

it started with massive breakout sometimes on butt, back, arms and legs. when i was 16-18 recently only butt, pubic area and legs.

they are usually small to larger cysts that can fill with puss or they just flatten out. they can reach pea sized.

i looked at my legs and see that i have two golf ball like bumps on my knee and ankle, atypical when i breakout in folliculitus.

tried hibicleanse, benzyl peroxide, clindamycin (which worked but then it returns) loosing faith in doctors

some of them get super painful to the point i can't rub against them or put friction on them. i'm having health anxiety rn

u/gingersnappie1 — 3 days ago
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is this hs or folliculitus?? pls help lol 21f !!!!!!

hidrenitis supertiva or folliculitus? been suffering since age 16. been diagnosed multiplie times with folliculitus but it keeps coming back. went away for a while after a sunny beach vacation.

it started with massive breakout sometimes on butt, back, arms and legs. when i was 16-18 recently only butt, pubic area and legs.

they are usually small cysts that can fill with puss or they just flatten out.

i looked at my legs and see that i have two golf ball like bumps on my knee and ankle, atypical when i breakout in folliculitus.

tried hibicleanse, benzyl peroxide, clindamycin (which worked but then it returns) loosing faith in doctors

some of them get super painful to the point i can't rub against them or put friction on them. i'm having health anxiety rn

u/gingersnappie1 — 3 days ago