u/foodmamaa

My neighbor shines a bright ass light into our bedroom all night long from his ugly trailer he brought into his property when he bought it 1 year ago. I’ve asked twice, once like 6-8 months ago and once about a month ago, for him to turn it off at night. He leaves it on every night until at least midnight and then maybe will turn it off, but recently hasn’t been.

Can I do anything? It’s really obnoxious and means we can’t sleep with our windows open in the hot summer because bright light shines directly in our eyes. It literally shines directly into where our heads hit the pillow in our bed. I’ve asked nicely twice, he turns it off nightly for awhile, then goes back to keeping it on all night. He has other lights he can leave on instead and I don’t know why he leaves it on. So now I’m just feeling disrespected and not sure what I can do.

My husband and mom are the 2 biggest supporters in my life and both think giving birth anywhere but a hospital is literally insane. I just can’t get the feeling out of myself that I’m meant to give birth at home, but they fear monger me that I’m putting baby in danger if I do. I don’t have it in me to fight them. Mom will get on board with whatever I want but my husband wants me to be in a hospital since this is our first baby and “what if something goes wrong”. I trust him and his feelings and I want him on board and to feel emotionally on board with the plan but he is soooo not. Even with the research that home birth is as safe as a hospital, he’s worried about me bleeding out and dying and needing to call an ambulance and get transferred to the hospital. Then his fear leaks into me. Idk what I’m even asking just help. I get that he should support me and do what I want, but we’re also a team and I value what he thinks. Blah

My husband does NOT understand and my brain is overwhelmed trying to explain it to him. He’s not doubting me or not on my side he just literally doesn’t understand the benefit

What’s the biggest, least busy gym in the area? I’m in Loomis and am ok with a 15 min drive. Currently go to VillaSport but it’s sooo busy even though I go between 12-2. Any intel appreciated thanks!