u/emiberr

this all started when two people inside the friend group started dating, tai and Felix. From the start everyone else had a feeling it would be a bad idea due to Felix’s bad history with communication and how jealous they can get. We let Tai know this but it’s still ended up happening. Well thy broke up, which everyone expected. Tai was hurt because whenever Felix had a problem in the relationship or was just upset about something in general, they would just go on twitter complaining about it, without even trying to communicate with tai or they would just vague post on their note ( which a lot them where targeted towards tai) but the things is tai also blows a lot of things out of proportion, so she just assumed that everything was about her when in reality it wasn’t, adding more stress to the situation. Tai confronted Felix about this and it ended just like that. Now I do think they needed to break up, as it was causing so much problems but the way tai did it was not the best. She didn’t even give a reason and just dropped Felix like that. Obviously they weren’t on good terms but everyone else was still friends with Felix. I wanted to keep it that way until Tai started saying we had to pick a side. At the time I didn’t wanna lose my friendship with Tai either and I felt very pressured but I did understand tais perspective. Felix wasn’t the best person. So the whole friend group cut Felix off. A couple months went by until one of my other friends (baylee) in the friend group reached out to me . She explained that she hasn’t been doing well mentally since the fallout with Felix. I understand that cus her and Felix were like best friends. The whole situation had stressed her out so much she started binge eating and getting depressed. She also explained how she was getting irritated with tai recently, as tais been acting really high maintenance and controlling lately ( and honestly as much as tai hates felix, they are alike in some ways) She explained how she reached out to Felix privately and they decided to be friends again. I respected her opinion but I knew tai has to know soon. And as you would expect she didn’t take it lightly. She cut off baylee immediately. I explained to tai before this that I would not choose side in this, as I’ve known Baylee for years and she is one of my best friends. Tai said she understood that but she probably would not talk to Baylee in a group setting anymore. All seemed to be fine until Tai just started ignoring us. I reached out to talk about it and she said that me being friends with Baylee is just excusing Felix’s actions. I told her that I have no part in Baylee and Felix’s business and I am friends with Baylee individually.Tiana said she didn’t want to be a part of the friend group and I said I respect that and we can be friends individually and hang out separately if it’s more comfortable. She still hasn’t responded to me and Is now ghosting me I’m person to. I don’t wanna lose my friendship with tai:(

this all started when two people inside the friend group started dating, tai and Felix. From the start everyone else had a feeling it would be a bad idea due to Felix’s bad history with communication and how jealous they can get. We let Tai know this but it’s still ended up happening. Well thy broke up, which everyone expected. Tai was hurt because whenever Felix had a problem in the relationship or was just upset about something in general, they would just go on twitter complaining about it, without even trying to communicate with tai or they would just vague post on their note ( which a lot them where targeted towards tai) but the things is tai also blows a lot of things out of proportion, so she just assumed that everything was about her when in reality it wasn’t, adding more stress to the situation. Tai confronted Felix about this and it ended just like that. Now I do think they needed to break up, as it was causing so much problems but the way tai did it was not the best. She didn’t even give a reason and just dropped Felix like that. Obviously they weren’t on good terms but everyone else was still friends with Felix. I wanted to keep it that way until Tai started saying we had to pick a side. At the time I didn’t wanna lose my friendship with Tai either and I felt very pressured but I did understand tais perspective. Felix wasn’t the best person. So the whole friend group cut Felix off. A couple months went by until one of my other friends (baylee) in the friend group reached out to me . She explained that she hasn’t been doing well mentally since the fallout with Felix. I understand that cus her and Felix were like best friends. The whole situation had stressed her out so much she started binge eating and getting depressed. She also explained how she was getting irritated with tai recently, as tais been acting really high maintenance and controlling lately ( and honestly as much as tai hates felix, they are alike in some ways) She explained how she reached out to Felix privately and they decided to be friends again. I respected her opinion but I knew tai has to know soon. And as you would expect she didn’t take it lightly. She cut off baylee immediately. I explained to tai before this that I would not choose side in this, as I’ve known Baylee for years and she is one of my best friends. Tai said she understood that but she probably would not talk to Baylee in a group setting anymore. All seemed to be fine until Tai just started ignoring us. I reached out to talk about it and she said that me being friends with Baylee is just excusing Felix’s actions. I told her that I have no part in Baylee and Felix’s business and I am friends with Baylee individually.Tiana said she didn’t want to be a part of the friend group and I said I respect that and we can be friends individually and hang out separately if it’s more comfortable. She still hasn’t responded to me and I’m now ghosting in person to. I don’t wanna lose my friendship with tai :( help