u/desibutlocal

Hey everyone,

I’ve been noticing a pattern and I’m trying to make sense of it.

When I see posts from women that are clearly about sexting, they tend to respond very quickly when messaged, and are very much open to chatting. But when it comes to women posting in normal subreddits about “interested in someone for chat”, even when I reply to them in a respectful way, most of the time there’s no response, or the conversation doesn’t really go anywhere.

So it makes me wonder what’s actually going on.

Is it simply lack of interest in talking to random people? Why bother posting then?

Is it because of past experiences that make women hesitant to reply or continue conversations?

Or is it just that the kind of interaction I’m interested in, is not something people usually come here for?

I’m not judging anyone’s choices. People can do whatever they want. I’m just trying to understand the difference in behavior.

Personally, I’m just interested in friendly conversations. Like talking about daily life, sharing thoughts, maybe sending voice notes. Nothing vulgur or sexual in nature, but it feels surprisingly hard to get that here.

Would appreciate hearing honest perspectives, especially from women.

Hey everyone,

I’ve been noticing a pattern and I’m trying to make sense of it.

When I see posts from women that are clearly about sexting, they tend to respond very quickly when messaged, and are very much open to chatting. But when it comes to women posting in normal subreddits about “interested in someone for chat”, even when I reply to them in a respectful way, most of the time there’s no response, or the conversation doesn’t really go anywhere.

So it makes me wonder what’s actually going on.

Is it simply lack of interest in talking to random people? Why bother posting then?

Is it because of past experiences that make women hesitant to reply or continue conversations?

Or is it just that the kind of interaction I’m interested in, is not something people usually come here for?

I’m not judging anyone’s choices. People can do whatever they want. I’m just trying to understand the difference in behavior.

Personally, I’m just interested in friendly conversations. Like talking about daily life, sharing thoughts, maybe sending voice notes. Nothing vulgur or sexual in nature, but it feels surprisingly hard to get that here.

Would appreciate hearing honest perspectives, especially from women.