r/DatingInIndia

Hi Guys, I am 38 divorced male from Noida and joined bumble a month ago on a friend's recommendation and below is my experience with girls/women after using it for a month :

1. Cafe Scam Girl - Girl aged around 22. After chatting for 2 hours, wanted to meet me at Preet Vihar metro and from there to go any nearby cafe. Gave her so many options nearby to reservation but she was adamant on meeting and then decide. So eventually I went and gosh she named a nearby cafe which if you see in Google reviews was famous for scams and I told her "behan yeh sab mat karo, this is crime and kisi din ganda fasogi" and left from there.

2. Money Scam Girl - Girl Aged around 22. Chatted for two days and she started asking for money (10K) saying she is in need and would return it soon. I sensed something fishy and blocked her and moved on.

3. Divorced Woman - Woman aged 38 who herself was divorced but was more interested in judging me and criticising me . Chatted and talked over call for a week and eventually found she has developed hate for all men.

I just regret why I told things about my personal life to her and let her criticize me.

4. Internship Girl - Girl aged 23 recently graduated, we chatted for couple of weeks and also talked over phone couple of times, after learning I hold a senior management position in a corporate was more interested in getting an internship than dating. Feel like she is out of my league.

5. Women in Early 30's : Interacted with three of them. Single, Independent and wanted to start conversation only if it leads to marriage. Since I recently divorced I was in no hurry for another relationship without knowing the other person. So things ended early with them.

6. Sugar Baby Girls : The majority was interested in me sugar dating them virtually and not ready to meet in IRL.

So many things in one month. Now feel like deactivate the account.

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I’m 25F, in a healthy relationship with a really loving guy. But something happened recently that I can’t stop thinking about.

I went to a nearby spa just to relax. The place had dim lights, soft music, very cosy vibes. The reception guy was extremely attractive. When he came closer to explain the packages, my heart started beating so fast. He stood very close, speaking softly, and I suddenly felt so aware of myself.

Then he said the service would be done by a male masseur. I got shocked for a second… but I still said okay. I don’t even know why.

The whole experience felt so thrilling. I haven’t felt that kind of rush in a long time. I felt nervous, excited, almost breathless. Even now when I think about it, I feel that same heat.

I love my boyfriend. But I can’t lie… I enjoyed that excitement more than I should have. And that’s what is making me feel guilty.

Anyone wants to have a good non nsfw honest chat for today? Introduce yourself with your ASL and just what do you do.

Got taste and money. Attracting finer things in life. Not into a lot of weird stuff. Just an ordinary guy with ordinary expectations. Hit me up.

Nothing much to review on the profile yet because burner account but if we click, you might get the best of me.

Hey everyone, 29 M here!

Trying Reddit for a change because dating apps haven’t really worked out for me—felt more transactional than genuine.

A bit about me: I’m a laid-back guy who enjoys simple things like night drives and meaningful conversations. I don’t drink or party, but I do enjoy the occasional smoke up session. I’d say I’m energetic in my own way and prefer depth over small talk.

I really enjoy talking about things like business, future plans, career growth, and even spirituality if that’s something you’re into. I appreciate mature perspectives and good conversations where both people can learn from and support each other.

Not putting any labels here—just looking to connect with someone around my age, see if we vibe, and let things unfold naturally.

If this resonates, HMU!!!

Hey 👋

34M, average cozy build, introverted.

I connected with a woman recently. nice chat, shared personal details, good vibe, seemed like a real connect. Then the next day her account disappeared. It felt disappointing because the conversation had potential.

Has this happened to others? Especially women who engage thoughtfully, what usually makes you stay or leave?

I’m hoping to find someone who wants slow, meaningful connection without the sudden vanishing act. If you’re open to real talk about life, emotions, or anything else, I’d love to hear from you.

Let’s keep it honest ❤️

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26M, working professional. Pretty laid back, into running, conversations, and spontaneous plans.

Got a free Sunday and thinking it’d be nice to meet someone new. :)

Someone from Chennai or Bangalore only.

Hi 28M here.

Been using dating apps for 4-5 years. I hardly get matches and maybe the handful of matches I have got never ended up in dates.

Can someone suggest any agencies that help make my profile better to start getting more matches.

Anyone up for chatting here

So I was really frustrated about this and vented the other day.

But as I had said, I invited her on Saturday one more time, even though I felt I was falling for the "sunk cost fallacy."

But as it turns out, we made out heavily, rolled up together and watched Netflix. It was actually very romantic. She said she wanted to wait a couple more weeks for sex. That's okay.

She went back in the late evening because her parents are visiting this week. She promised to stay the night next weekend.

I guess I was freaking out over 3 dates without sex. Maybe I am just jaded from years of dating and forgotten to believe in romance :)

got 2 tickets offer b1g1

tickets on me (if you are girl )

if you are couple take my both tickets for 400 and enjoy together

(total bill of 700 capped)

So today i was randomly talking to my friend and asked her what could be the reason for me not getting a good gf and she said that cause im too sorted.. i dont fight .. i m too caring and understanding .. like just so happy and fine .. and that i cook also… uske baad bolti hai mai bahoot jyda pamper karta hu toh ladkio yeh nhi pasand qki fir meresath relationship pe ane ka koi purpose he nhi hai … its all so normal and no toxicity

Shes like ive got no issues to fix , and that could be anytbing

Ab mai isko kya he samjhu bc pata nhi.. but then she also tells me that im the only guy who she would ever introduce to her friends cause of all the abv reasons.. but i genuinely have a que.. what do girls really want?

Cause mere time pe toh idk it never worked

Batao kya karu..

Btw ik there are the most basic efforts anyone could put and ya happy to hear what women would describe efforts that are more than bare minimum

dm or comment if you want to be my personal FCK doll