u/dat1papaya

I love when I post on here and I get dms from other large chested ladies. I love posting myself in tank tops and bras. It’s so great to exchange sizes with each other and…

Ok now that it’s only lurkers: GET THE HELL OFF THIS SUB ITS NOT FOR YOU! LITERALLY NO WOMAN IN THE HISTORY OF THIS SUB HAS EVER WANTED TO GET A DM OR EXCHANGE PHOTOS! WE ARE JUST TRYING TO HAVE OUR COMMUNITY AND YOU GUYS ARE RUINING IT! THERE ARE NSFW CITES ON HERE FOR BIG BOOBS SO GO BOTHER THE MODELS THERE AND LEAVE US ALONE!!!!!

Because society tends to sexualize large chests I noticed that media with the most consistent representation of women with larger chests is in pornography. This isn’t really surprising to anyone who has ever been on the internet, but I noticed recently that the over representation of larger chests in pornographic media and the underrepresentation in anything else has actually effected my psyche.

First, characters with larger chests are already rarely seen on screen. For the characters that are portrayed they are always over sexualized or have their bodies commented on. Besides Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, I don’t know of any conventional media formats that consistently portrays large chested women in a positive light and not just the butt of a joke. In pornography, actresses with larger chests are clearly fetishized, but desired none the less.

This realization really fucked with my self esteem in my teenage years, especially as a woman of color. Women of color are already underrepresented and over sexualized in media. Having the only “positive” representation of your race and body type be in pornography can do real harm to young women. When I was younger I used to watch porn not because I liked it, but because the people on the screen actually looked like me. I just wish that there was more truly neutral media of larger chested women that don’t address our bodies at all.

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I'm 24 and graduated college last year in 2025 and I have nothing to show for it. I wish that I can say that I spent this gap year time applying to grad school/law school, traveling, or working but no, I spent the better part of an entire year in my bed on my computer, watching TV, and being depressed. I got my degree in data science which I absolutely hated, taking very difficult courses and working so hard in a field that I hated and naturally was not good at but I thought that as long as long as I got my degree in a high-paying, fast growing field that it would be worth it.

At the same time that I got my degree was when the data science market crashed in the US and all of the entry level jobs began to be replaced with AI. I have applied to around 300 jobs and have gotten no where. I live with my parents, I don't work or do much of anything. All of my "work experience" is research-based and for 9-months max. I did research in non-data science fields all through college, published a research paper, multiple articles in magazines, and won an award for my senior thesis. The fields that I did research in were related to social and environmental justice, AI reform, and climate change, all fields that have been more or less gutted in recent years. I have also applied to retail jobs/ food service jobs in my hometown town but I still can't get them because I am overqualified. I don't know what to do with my life, but I know that I can't keep doing this.