u/buttermaker-105

Good first date overall but unsure how to handle one small moment at the end would you still follow up?

I went on a date with someone I met on a dating app. The date was fine I guess. We. Laughed and joked and everything seemed pretty normal when we were together.

Something stayed with me after we said goodbye. The date had been going well. Then her energy changed a bit at the end. The date was fun. When we parted ways she seemed less interested in me than she was before. She was not being mean or anything she just seemed different.

I do not know if I am thinking about this much or not. The date was good. This one thing is bothering me. I keep thinking about how she seemed at the end of the date.

That is why I have not contacted her yet. I want to know if I should still get in touch with her or not. Would you still talk to someone after a date like this. Would you take it as a sign that you should leave the person you met on the dating app alone? I am talking about the person I met on the dating app and I am wondering what you would do in my situation, with the person I met on the dating app.

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u/buttermaker-105 — 9 hours ago

Overall, the first date went well but there was one little thing at the end that made me feel strange. I do not know if I am reading too much into it.

Not too long ago, I went on a first date and it went very well. We talked, laughed and had a great time on the date. It felt pretty normal.

But in the end, there was one small thing that did not seem right. Her answer felt a little different when we said goodbye. It was not rude or bad, it just did not care as much as it used to.

I can not stop thinking about that moment but I am not sure if it really matters or if I am just overthinking it.

I do not want to make it a bigger deal than it is because everything else about the date was fine.

Would you read something like that or would you just do what you usually do?

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u/buttermaker-105 — 1 day ago
▲ 10 r/AskMen

What is something small someone said or did that completely changed how you saw them?

Not anything big, just one moment that surprised you and changed how you saw them.

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u/buttermaker-105 — 3 days ago
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On our first date, she said something that made me question everything

I remembered this today even though it happened a long time ago. It still feels unreal.

Everything was going fine on my first date. Nothing strange just talking.

Then we somehow started talking about past relationships which already felt like a risky subject.

She suddenly asked me if i had ever lied in a relationship. i said something like, It is not a big deal just little things. She was quiet for a few seconds and then she said casually that she had once pretended to be pregnant to see how her ex would react.

I laughed at first because i thought she was joking. She was not. That was exact moment i knew this date had gone very strange.

I tried to act normal but my brain was like, yes this is not going to work. We finished date with her, it was clear that we would not be go with her .

It is funny how a normal situation can turn into something really quickly when you look back on it.

Has anyone else ever had a date with someone that went wrong all of a sudden?

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u/buttermaker-105 — 5 days ago