u/blueeyeslonglocks

After a communication break down and hurting my situationships feelings he ended up blocking me on all forms of social media. I would love to talk things over, but do people tend to come back after the dust settles?

I’ve never been in a situation where I felt the need to block someone, so I don’t really understand why people do that without communicating beforehand. 9 times out of 10 a conversation can take place and mutual ground can be found.

What are peoples experiences with this?

I (29F) was seeing a guy (26M) we were friends for a long time and tested the waters of being more. I developed strong feelings for him but never led on. He wanted to come see me the other night but I said I was not keen for him to come over and stay until early hours of the morning being intimate. I did not think anything serious was going to happen because we had only been hanging out at my place and having sex so I rejected his offer to come over because I didn’t want to end up getting my feelings hurt over time.

Since he did not come over I ended up getting drunk alone and reached out to an ex. He then called me and I went over, we only hung out, slept in seperate beds and drank together then I left in the morning because I was too drunk to drive.

Whilst I was at my exes house I had sent a snapchat and he could tell I was not home. I didn’t think he would care because it seemed like he was never that interested in me other than sex.

I then woke up and my crush had blocked me on everything except one form of communication, so I reached out and asked why he had blocked me. He then told me that he did have feelings for me the whole time and that he did care that I had seen someone else.

I am a little confused why this guy was only seeing me of a night to have sex if he had genuine feelings for me?

Is there anyway I could potentially resurrect this connection with my crush?

I (29F) and him (26M) have been talking to each other for over a month. We have only hung out several times in that time period due to having completely opposite rosters. We will see each other in the intermission period of roster change over. We have been friends for over 4 years now and get along like a house on fire.

I have finally taken some time off and in my leave from work we will be seeing each other more as we’ve discussed. He says he is interested but has failed to make plans or suggest anything at all other than we will hang out. In my experience, guys will be pretty straight forward with planning dates or an outing if the opportunity arises. Are some guys just poor planners or would this indicate he is not interested in me and I should cut my loses?